no but well seme perfectly knew that uke was in love with him since the beginning, he wanted to be a couple not sex friend. Sure he agreed to be just sex friend after, but I mean it's common sense that when you know that someone is in love with you, you don't use them for sex knowing their feelings just to make you feel superior or something... That's just cruel, he just had to reject him firmly and that's all.
This is a manga so I don't care but in real life no one has to play with the feelings of others under the pretext they told them they wouldn't go for more than sex friend. Don't be a bastard and just reject them since the beginning so they don't have to suffer and move on.
no, no one has to play with feelings of others in real life, unfortunately, they still do. a lot of times, people get into a sex friend relationship with someone they love (but haven't told that person) in hopes that the person will fall in love with them. which isn't right either, cos that's how that person gets hurt. the other person will never feel guilt from it, because it was understood from the beginning. then there's also when both people aren't in love, get into a sex friend relationship, and one of them catches feelings. i just wish most people understood that love doesn't equal sex and sex doesn't equal love. relationships, no matter what kind, are complicated things and everyone handles it differently.
Yeah I agree with all what you've said. If someone is in love with someone, but doesn't tell their feelings and say that they just want to be sex friends, then it's not the others person's fault to accept because they didn't know.
But here it's not the case because seme knew even before they became sex friends, because uke came clean so I'm just saying it's not right. Yeah it's a shame that in real life some people think it's ok to be sex friend with someone they know love them, but even if more and more people do that we shouldn't forget it's not right. It shoudn't be trivialized I'm just saying.
For the rest, I totally agree with you.
i thought he didn't confess his love until this latest chapter. if it's before then, i think i need to re-read, cos i forget things fast lol but even if he confessed his love at the beginning, he shouldn't have said it was okay to be sex friends. that right there is a recipe for disaster, cos 99.9% of the time, that doesn't work out.
Oh I see! Yeah he did. Well tue, but almost anyone would take the opportunity to become closer to the person they love, hoping they will fall in love with them too. But yeah that's bad for them because most of the time they are being used, but can't really blame them for acting like that... The true bastards are the person using them knowing their feelings.
But well here in this manga, it seems it worked haha. Seme just isn't honest.
in real life, most people don't know the other person is in love with them when they get into a friends w benefits type of relationship. once they do know, or even if one of them catches feelings after starting the relationship, the person in love will usually cut it off. i don't see the seme using this guy in any way. it's actually the other way around, cos he's hoping to get the seme to fall in love w him. now that the seme knows the uke's feelings, it'll be harder to have just a sex relatioship. but, this is a manga, so they'll work through it somehow, though in reality, the seme's feelings of inadequacy, and maybe 'not' being in love w the uke, would end this relationship. but like i said, it's a manga, so seme will probably 'discover' he's in love, too lol
Hmm I'm not sure about that. But well.
No, seme's definitly using uke. It's not wrong to say that uke's using seme too, but it's purer : it's just to become closer to him because he loves him that's all. And he wants his feelings to get through seme, who doesn't take him seriously.
But in seme's case, he's using uke feelings because he's like jealous or envious of him (like he said in the last chapter), so seeing uke geting desesperate for him, or toping him in bed makes seme feel good to his ego. He feels superior for once.
And like I said, seme didn't know uke's feelings just "now" : he knew before they were sex friends. And that's exactly at that time after uke confessed that seme proposed they become sex friend... If that's not using him then I don't know what it is ^^
If you confess to someone and that someone say that "if it's just for the sex, I'm in", anyone would be shocked I think. Because you can't just say that to someone who got the courage to confess and loves you. You either say yes or no, but ignoring the person's feelings and just asking for sex is soooooo disrespectful to that person.
nothing is ever more pure in a sex friends relationship. lol i've old af, so seen and experienced a lot of things lol but, everyone has their own opinion on things, and that's okay, too. i'm just looking at it from being in this world a very long time haha
y'all acting like the boss was ever in it for more than sex when they started sleeping together. the uke went and fell in love on his own, and just because he fell in love, doesn't mean the other will. that's the peril of having a sex friend.
i get why the boss is like he is. and this kind of stuff, where one works his ass off for years just to get passed over for promotion and it given to a younger person is shit that happens all the time. and if you don't feel good about yourself, how the hell are you gonna feel good about yourself being around the person who makes you feel incompetent?
i do think he has come to like the uke as more than a sex friend, but like i said, it won't work if he can't feel good about himself if he's around the uke. this is a manga though, so stuff will get worked out in the end. lol