I need smut straight but without womaniser/playboy/fuckboi/player/cheater/rapist male lea...

Yuu May 13, 2020 5:46 am

I need smut straight but without
womaniser/playboy/fuckboi/player/cheater/rapist male lead please...

No offense just curious, does Japanese women really like handsome but player/womaniser boyfriend??

Responses
    Dashi Run Run Run! May 13, 2020 6:03 am

    Not Japanese, but I'm Asian, so I think we do have a kind of fantasy of bad boy/womaniser/ player I guess. Kinda like the victory when you can 'tame' one of them. Well, I find this kinda ridiculous, and not into it as well, but somehow lots of Asian girls, even in my country (including my friends) fall for this type of boys. Also, I think it's because of the culture, where the man still holds a higher position not only in society but in tradition as well (of course it will come it higher expectation for them)

    Yuu May 13, 2020 6:07 am
    Not Japanese, but I'm Asian, so I think we do have a kind of fantasy of bad boy/womaniser/ player I guess. Kinda like the victory when you can 'tame' one of them. Well, I find this kinda ridiculous, and not int... Dashi Run Run Run!

    Hmmm I see.. well I kinda understand the "can tame the bad boy" part. Because once I had a friend like this.

    Just praying for smut shoujo with puppy boi male lead. ╥﹏╥

    Astrid May 13, 2020 6:09 am
    Not Japanese, but I'm Asian, so I think we do have a kind of fantasy of bad boy/womaniser/ player I guess. Kinda like the victory when you can 'tame' one of them. Well, I find this kinda ridiculous, and not int... Dashi Run Run Run!

    Super happy you answered this question. I’ve been wondering the same thing myself. Thanks~!

    Zennzenn May 13, 2020 6:14 am

    weird fetish i think,,,,but i kind of pissed off too,,,i am asain though,,,, i lead my 20 years of life single and kind of hard to believe the word "like/love" from someone,,,

    Breath May 13, 2020 6:20 am
    Hmmm I see.. well I kinda understand the "can tame the bad boy" part. Because once I had a friend like this.Just praying for smut shoujo with puppy boi male lead. ╥﹏╥ Yuu

    I agree! We need more puppy-like MLs. I’m getting real sick and tired with all these assholes. Throw them out on the street, cause they’re trash. (-_-)/

    anonienonie May 13, 2020 6:24 am

    This is just anecdotes from my Japanese co-workers-- they say the problem is that most Japanese men nowadays are just herbivores ie passive/"unmanly" and don't seem to be interested with IRL sex. So it's not that they like playboy/womanisers but rather they prefer the assertiveness these men have over the passive ones. As a personal observation as well, my Jap friends who have foreign partners seem to have a more balanced relationship in terms of power.

    JayJayTak May 13, 2020 6:27 am
    Hmmm I see.. well I kinda understand the "can tame the bad boy" part. Because once I had a friend like this.Just praying for smut shoujo with puppy boi male lead. ╥﹏╥ Yuu

    There's not many puppy male lead shojo smut that's not creepy-rapist, but here's a few that I guarantee you'll enjoy.
    http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/owabi_minna_no_ouji_sama_no_doutei_wa_watashi_ga_oishiku/

    http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_dream_between_the_sheets/

    Sakuramachi May 13, 2020 6:58 am
    This is just anecdotes from my Japanese co-workers-- they say the problem is that most Japanese men nowadays are just herbivores ie passive/"unmanly" and don't seem to be interested with IRL sex. So it's not th... anonienonie

    But you know who’s making them all passive? It’s the elders. I’m not Asian but as a Hispanic lady it’s the opposite. Like, they are all macho and shit. Like male chauvinist is off the charts. And in Japan and Korea it seems like having to respect elders is the same. I’m all for respecting people but you don’t treat me like crap for nothing. I don’t care if you’re my dad my brother and especially my husband. Respect goes both ways. (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸

    Yuu May 13, 2020 7:09 am
    There's not many puppy male lead shojo smut that's not creepy-rapist, but here's a few that I guarantee you'll enjoy.http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/owabi_minna_no_ouji_sama_no_doutei_wa_watashi_ga_oishiku/htt... JayJayTak

    Omg... Thank you~~
    These are what I'm looking for...
    I'll read it asap...

    anonienonie May 13, 2020 7:20 am
    But you know who’s making them all passive? It’s the elders. I’m not Asian but as a Hispanic lady it’s the opposite. Like, they are all macho and shit. Like male chauvinist is off the charts. And in Jap... Sakuramachi

    Yes exactly~ I'm white but I've been living and working between the Philippines, Japan and Korea for the past 20 years, and the hiarachy system can go fuck off. Respect based on age is such an outdated concept. It should be earned, not automatically given just because someone is a bit older. When I first started working in Japan, it was a real culture shock because I couldn't go against a senpai (even when he was in the wrong) because he outranked me. And it wasn't just the hiarachy, the sexism and xenophobia was insane. The work culture was so toxic-- we couldn't leave the office until the boss left... Even though we were done with out work for the day! I love Japan, but some parts of the culture is just absolute madness. It's no wonder a lot of Japanese prefer to escape to world of 2D.

    Dashi Run Run Run! May 13, 2020 12:19 pm
    Yes exactly~ I'm white but I've been living and working between the Philippines, Japan and Korea for the past 20 years, and the hiarachy system can go fuck off. Respect based on age is such an outdated concept.... anonienonie

    Yup, it's similar in my country as well but not that crazy. Somehow Asian girls (most of them, not all) are raised with the mindset from the old tradition that you all you need is beauty, elegance and have just "enough" knowledge so you're not too stupid, but not overwhelming your man at the same time. That leads to the result that we girls are usually passive in terms of the relationship. Same things go with the boy, you have to be strong, have a successful career, handsome and experienced in sex to be considered as a "popular" man. I don't know, that sounds bullshit for me lol. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Yuu May 13, 2020 2:23 pm
    The kinda ok manga but a bit airhead mc:-http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shinobu_koi_hodo/http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_guy_i_m_into_is_a_you_know_what/http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/over_cumming_writ... Herika69

    Yumm yumm thanks for the food... ლ(´ڡ`ლ)