I think you missed the point why he offered sex.
Do you think so? I just don't believe that you can prove your love to someone by having sex with him, not even in their situation.
Then again maybe I am wrong it just doesn't seem like it's the right way to deal with it. Like I was straight but I have sex with you although I am afraid to saw you how much I love you?
Of course you’re right to don’t listen to them this is fictional story romanticizing what WonYoung did was sympathetic. His sex idea adds insult to injury. It’s damn right insensitive. We know he’s obtuse as fuck so it shouldn’t come as a surprise. What he did was awful and if this was reality he really shouldn’t be forgiven AT ALL but that’s not how things work in romantic fictions. The level of deception he did and specific on the insecurity he was privy too would destroy Yoon if he was anyone of us with such low self esteem and trust issues.
Well I don't think what he did was that bad and I believe everything can be forgiven well I guess if certain stuff happen you can't go back to being in a relationship. It's certainly wrong to not respect other people's privacy but that's not the reason he dated him he fell in love with him and he wouldn't use his emotions to take advantage of him, I don't think he is a dishonest manipulative person. But you are right, if a person has trust issues it would be too hard to make it work after that, but everything can heal and things always work out if you believe.
I think people are really not grasping what WonYoung because again we are privy to his thoughts. What he did was awful not some it’s fine he meant well. Yoon literally has only experienced being used by people left and right. But his father. By his last romantic partner. And soon to be a corporation. WonYoung has full knowledge of Yoon taking steps to insert himself into Yoon’s life and was advices to get as close as he could to Yoon. Yoon obviously doesn’t know what method WonYoung was advised to this but given how WonYoung never once mentioned who he really was and his purpose for doing so Yoon would of course naturally rely on past experience to fill in the blanks that WonYoung deceived him through “seduction” something Yoon’s ex very much did. We are the audience we have knowledge of everything everyone is thinking yet everyone is siding with WonYoung as if they cannot fathom why Yoon wouldn’t forgive WonYoung for unconsciously taking advantage of Yoon completely. I think can’t grasp this because we have WonYoung as our main so we naturally sympathize with his point of view. The reality is WonYoung is pitiable but to any onlooker without access to his thoughts he utterly betrayed someone he apparently loved because he still used them in way that brings out Yoon’s deepest insecurities and trauma. I’m realistic so I just find fictional plots like this fine to forgive and move on but in way in hell would I root for WonYoung in real life he made his own bed. I actually work in film and had a friend made a documentary on this very topic where women would be tricked to fall in love with men who were government/ corporate spies. Find out these women’s secrets at whatever costs including sleeping with them having actual families with them and then leaving in the night to sell them out to their employers. Those women’s lives never recovered. You can actually search online court cases that have risen because of these men going unpunished for the level of emotional manipulation that scar the people they’ve encountered.
Excuse my phone’s typos *^
Oomgggg that's just awfull and why would anyone do that!? Those people must be so unhappy living for a goverment that instead of helping people is actually harming them. I totally agree with you! (≧∀≦) Glad we had such a nice conversation!
Yeah it’s so awful when she showed me the video interviews when she was doing the research it was so awful. These women can’t even fight against the governments that ruined their lives because it’s considered political espionage so these men have immunity. The worst was the one interview of a woman who confronted one of these men directly just by accident as he was with his new family in some random place and asked him why? What did she posses that her own country ( she was considered a radical political activist that needed to be dealt with) that she would be the target of the biggest betrayal and lie of her life by her own country? He wouldn’t even answer her. So this is why I personally don’t feel sorry for WonYoung because this is actually a reality for people. It just happens he’s in fictional BL that he’ll be forgiven because the plot requires it. He’s remorseful but that doesn’t change the hurt he’s caused to someone’s ability to trust ever again.
yes because sex will solve verything way to go...