Some people are into that. Some people are into helllllaa weird shit. For instance, throwing up on someone, peeing on someone, blood , etc. it’s weird... so I guess slapping isn’t that weird compared to others. I think Chanwoo likes pain too, but I’m kinda worried I hope MD doesn’t take it to far. I don’t really think he would?? Idk.
As someone who is into BDSM, slapping is nothing lol. There are different levels of BDSM but even at the bottom level I feel like slapping is nothing. Ffs when I was first starting to get into BDSM I was already being poured hot candle wax on me lol
It depends on what's in your contract of understanding. I'm less concerned w the slap as that seems to be in their play list, than I am of making chanwoo make out w someone else. That irks me way more.
The Dom can if it's been agreed upon. The core of BDSM is consent. Before any kind of play or even establishing a Dom/sub relationship, they have to discuss what their hard stops are, which can be "no slapping my face" if that's a no for the sub. So if MD did it, as a Dom, he has to be playing by their agreement. There's also the safe word which would stop that immediately if it's something the sub doesn't want to do. The first utterance of the safe word is an absolute dead stop, that very second. Anything past that is assault because it stops the consent, thus ceasing to be bdsm.
Sincere question - do Doms normally slap the M during BDSM? Well, still made me uncomfortable. Idk I hate this storyline overall. Not sure how they fix it.