I dont get why there is this need to turn tops into bottoms. I mean sure,he likes being a ...

lunaiddd May 23, 2020 1:41 pm

I dont get why there is this need to turn tops into bottoms. I mean sure,he likes being a bottome but he also likes being on top. But it feels weird to showcase it so much in these mangas. Just because he is an omega doesnt mean he needs to be an owo little obedient baby that moans like a girl.
Ah idk,its just weird to see that trope so much imo

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    MLKY May 23, 2020 2:22 pm

    It’s not really a “need” but it’s to do with power dynamics, some people naturally like to be in control or give control to someone else, and then there are people who like to take control from someone who would usually be in control, it’s an exchange of power and dominance but equally being submissive is another form of power. It depends on the relationship, the dynamics and how much power is actually being exchanged beyond who actually puts it in or not

    Biss May 23, 2020 2:31 pm
    It’s not really a “need” but it’s to do with power dynamics, some people naturally like to be in control or give control to someone else, and then there are people who like to take control from someone ... MLKY

    But It's always the same in yaoi. Omegas are bottoms. Once someone switched they switched forever. He not only changed his preferences in bed but he also started acting a lot sweeter and gentler... His looks are also softer. For people who wanted to see some switching couple or omega on top this is a letdown.

    maychan May 23, 2020 2:39 pm

    I mean they still the same switch pair that enjoy having sex together, I don't see what the problem is ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Biss May 23, 2020 2:40 pm
    I mean they still the same switch pair that enjoy having sex together, I don't see what the problem is ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ maychan

    Not really. Their dynamic is completely changed. And they switch like 19:1

    maychan May 23, 2020 2:55 pm
    Not really. Their dynamic is completely changed. And they switch like 19:1 Biss

    are they enjoying it? that what important in the end.

    Biss May 23, 2020 3:27 pm
    are they enjoying it? that what important in the end. maychan

    Yes because author wrote that they enjoy that? What's even that logic. People complain about the same writting in yaoi over and over again.

    Deee May 23, 2020 3:33 pm

    Some people are tops, some people are bottoms, and other people are switches. I'm gonna assume Lim is strictly a top? Which means the other ends up being a bottom?

    Deee May 23, 2020 3:34 pm
    Some people are tops, some people are bottoms, and other people are switches. I'm gonna assume Lim is strictly a top? Which means the other ends up being a bottom? Deee

    Sorry I meant Hae-il is strictly a top.

    Deee May 23, 2020 3:35 pm
    Sorry I meant Hae-il is strictly a top. Deee

    Or perhaps now that Lim has bottomed he prefers it?

    MLKY May 23, 2020 8:56 pm

    Also when you enter a relationship where the feelings are mutual of course— depending on the person you are, would be gentler and sweeter as a couple. It’s lowkey dumb to think they would stay the same before and after the relationship starts, but each to their own.

    Deee May 23, 2020 10:05 pm
    Also when you enter a relationship where the feelings are mutual of course— depending on the person you are, would be gentler and sweeter as a couple. It’s lowkey dumb to think they would stay the same befo... MLKY

    ^this. Especially since Hae-il literally started out undercover as a kidnapper. There is zero chance Lim would be sweet to him in that situation.

    MLKY May 23, 2020 11:40 pm
    ^this. Especially since Hae-il literally started out undercover as a kidnapper. There is zero chance Lim would be sweet to him in that situation. Deee

    Exactly!! The both of them got soft and gentle and all mushy— it’s not just an omega thing (ᗒᗣᗕ)՞