Unpopular Opinion

itbelikethat May 23, 2020 5:47 pm

I do feel bad for Chanwoo. Chanwoo is a victim of abuse, and even though this story arc is about him and MD we know NOTHING about either of them or their pasts, which is why I’m trying not to judge either of them harshly yet. We have no idea what Chanwoo has experienced that makes him stay in abusive relationships. He mentioned a few times that his type is younger guys, which would explain why he doesn’t believe he likes MD. I wonder if his “type” has anything to do with his past or maybe the result of a first love or something. Anyway, Chanwoo and MD had a deal. The same way you guys say Chanwoo deserves this because MD is giving him the option to leave. MD and Chanwoo both agreed at first to keep their romantic lives and work separate. MD said Chanwoo could have boyfriends outside of their relationship because their agreement was for work/professional. Chanwoo also says he isn’t very trusting, yet falls in love way too quickly, what made him like this? There are just too many questions surrounding these characters and I can’t say I don’t feel bad for him until I hear those answers. Think about it, Chanwoo recognized Alex’s terrible behavior in the main story and was pretty against them getting back together because he didn’t want his friend to get hurt. Yet Chanwoo himself often gets into abusive relationships and stays longer than he should, why? Not to mention, as much as I respected MD in the last few chapters for safe wording out, it seems like he’s using BDSM as revenge here again. He’s entitled to getting a new sub, but doing it in this manner probably isn’t very healthy. I just want some background

Responses
    itbelikethat May 23, 2020 5:52 pm

    Also about Chanwoo safewording, I’m not sure I can trust a man who has a history of staying in abusive relationships to safe word in this situation if he really needs to which worries me :(

    ashiyel May 23, 2020 6:06 pm

    Thank you for being considerate to both of the characters and not judging too soon.

    itbelikethat May 23, 2020 6:26 pm
    Thank you for being considerate to both of the characters and not judging too soon. ashiyel

    Everyone is so quick to shit on the other character. I’ll admit I lean more toward Chanwoo’s side but I understand they’re both hurt. A BDSM scene isn’t what they need right now and it’s probably not the healthiest or safest thing to do in this situation.