Girl... you're reading and expecting too much from a little comic lmao. Learn the difference between a fictional character and an actual person. The author chose to use a trope that's been used countless times before to stir drama between two characters that WE KNOW will end up together. It's not a lesson on BDSM, empathy or a love guide. Just a hook to develop the plot with some tension.
Everyone pls calm downdjksks let’s not stick with one side of a character, this is not a discussion to see who’s right from wrong or what’s real or what’s not. We’re all exposing our thoughts and standing up for what we think is right but please don’t lose control of yourself and start bashing others
if MD was really important to him as you say and I roll with it, why did he have to get so low and make him meet the guy he was going to have sex and date? why hurt him like this knowing he has feelings for him??? why did he do that?! just cause some stranger guy wanted to meet MD despite MD ask him not to tell anyone about him?
people that ignore this part in Chan seemed to love to picture MD has some evil guy that use Chan, while forgetting Chanwoo is an asshole too that go too far with this crap!
You are completely right on the case Chanwoo we very insensitive, but at the same time I think Chanwoo is not aware of the importance of MD in his life there is also the case of him doing whatever it takes to please his partners that's why he only breaks up with them if they initiate it. It is something he had liked learnt to do. So I think that's why he refuses to leave. (〜￣△￣)〜
Chan was very insensitive every he called MD over I agree but it doesn't excuse MD's actions to humiliate him knowing he will go along with it just to stay with MD we also know that MD has not interest in that other dude but is using him as like a way to get back at him. I think it's a bit to much to use humiliation to get back at Chan. They are both in the wrong but one of them is a bit denser than the other. （￣へ￣）
First of all, Chanwoo has every right to reject MD’s confession. Second of all, he was manipulated by the other guy (forgot his name alreadyjsksk) and called MD to ask for permission in order to date the guy (and him being manipulated is not on MD, I think everyone knows this...) If you ask me he was considering MD’s feelings of concern because MD didn’t like to see him being mistreated by his lovers. Third of all, MD has every right to fall in love with Chanwoo and get hurt by being used as a stool for Chanwoo to get closer to the other guy. Fourth of all, it doesn’t justify MD’s actions for taking control of the situation and fulfill his purpose just because his feelings were hurt. Fifth of all, what are fighting for? Please don’t carelessly ramble your thoughts out and bash the characters before seeing the bigger picture. I’m neither agreeing or disagreeing with you. If you think what Chanwoo has done is lower than MD taking advantage of the s/m play, even going as far to push Chanwoo to make out with someone who had just manipulated him, then idk what to say. You can dislike a particular character but bashing on one to justify another is not it
it doesn't justify Chanwoo either-even if the guy asked him, he still been an asshole after MD just told him his feelings. so no, Chan is also at fault in this and he could say no and leave. and no MD didn't push him to anything, he give him the choice - stay or leave very clearly. Chan choose to stay! if you can't deal with it, it is your problem, but it still what he choose to do in this plot.
Idk if you’re purposely being a troll but that’s not the point. Initially when I was writing my previous reply, I had wanted to add in a sentence along the lines of saying that MD being rejected doesn’t really justify Chanwoo being manipulated, but after reading it over I erased it because both matters don’t really connect since they’re different. I understand where you’re coming from, becus yes it’s also Chanwoo’s fault for keeping face and going along with MD, not saying the safe word when he can, leaving when he can, using his legs when he can, but ofc the author’s going to use the s&m play as a plot device to deepen the story. You’re right. Chanwoo did choose to stay. But what you’re wrong about is “MD didn’t push him to anything”. He clearly knew when he got there that Chanwoo was manipulated and wanted to date the guy. What he doesn’t know is that Chanwoo wanted to ask for permission to date the guy. Anyways, MD gave him 2 choices and prompts Chanwoo to choose to stay to fight for the sub position under him while being in an uncomfortable situation (social vs business life). Idk what MD’s purpose is, I only briefly said that he wanted to take advantage of the situation and fulfill his purpose but I didn’t specify what purpose. Regarding your concern, I can deal with this so I don’t have a problem with understanding the execution of the story at all thank you very much, in fact I would love to see more of their relationship and see it develop outside of bdsm itself. On the other hand, if you can’t deal with others opinions then it is your own problem. Anyhow, remember to keep an open mind ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Sorry for texting so much oh lord
Everyone is talking about poor Chanwoo, but let's recap a bit. MD tried being kind to Chanwoo and he didn't want it and asked to be just dom and sub, then hooked up with someone and wanted to keep both relationships going (which he always did with his past boyfriends), then wanted to introduce his new hookup to the guy he rejected to ask for permission to keep both (which he's never done before) while knowing that MD doesn't want his identity known by other people. Then his hookup asks to take his place as MDs sub and MD places a test to decide who he'll keep and his one condition is that his sub has to obey his every word and when failing to obey, Chanwoo gets slapped... Everyone loses their shit for one slap when back in the early stages of their relationship, MD whipped the crap out of Chanwoo AFTER the play was over to assert his dominance and everyone thought it was amazing and sexy. Correct me if I'm wrong but Chanwoo isn't chained to the wall and could walk out whenever he want, right? Unlike that time when he was literally tied up and couldn't leave, so why was it ok back then but now MD is a monster? #makeitmakesense