i feel like people keep saying that MD went too far with the slap haven’t actually exper...

kmsfya May 23, 2020 6:56 pm

i feel like people keep saying that MD went too far with the slap haven’t actually experienced BDSM.. not even that MD HAS done worse to chanwoo, and everyone went all drooly for it. but the moment he unexpectedly slaps with and him not saying the safe word if he doesn’t enjoy it all hell breaks loose.

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    Biss May 23, 2020 7:16 pm

    I think you don't know what BDSM is if you call this think BDSM.

    Biss May 23, 2020 7:16 pm
    I think you don't know what BDSM is if you call this think BDSM. Biss

    Thing

    juuulya May 23, 2020 7:19 pm

    .... because then it’s not bdsm anymore. Chanwoo can’t consent because he’s mentally unstable and MD knows that. This is abuse. Do NOT call it bdsm, because bdsm is consensual.

    kmsfya May 23, 2020 7:27 pm
    Thing Biss

    yeah you’re right bdsm is way more than this is legit soft stuff compared to real bdsm. but clearly you haven’t actually experienced it so you don’t know how exactly it goes.

    kmsfya May 23, 2020 7:28 pm
    .... because then it’s not bdsm anymore. Chanwoo can’t consent because he’s mentally unstable and MD knows that. This is abuse. Do NOT call it bdsm, because bdsm is consensual. juuulya

    if he’s mentally unstable he shouldn’t be doing this at all and instead get help. but in no chapter does it mention he’s unstable so stop assuming. this is not abuse. this was consented from his part.

    juuulya May 23, 2020 7:30 pm
    if he’s mentally unstable he shouldn’t be doing this at all and instead get help. but in no chapter does it mention he’s unstable so stop assuming. this is not abuse. this was consented from his part. kmsfya

    Yeah, he really shouldn’t be doing this at all. It’s almost like he was being forced to, huh? Also, yes mentally stable people just absolutely LOVE to be choked to death. They adore almost being murdered <3

    kmsfya May 23, 2020 7:33 pm
    Yeah, he really shouldn’t be doing this at all. It’s almost like he was being forced to, huh? Also, yes mentally stable people just absolutely LOVE to be choked to death. They adore almost being murdered &l... juuulya

    WHEN WAS HE FORCED TO GO ALONG WITH THIS PLAY? IF ANYTHING HES THE ONE WHO oh i don’t know went fucking along with it at the cafe? stop making excuses for him because you enjoy that. show me an episode where he was forced to do something WITHOUT consent because he’s agreed to EVERYTHING.

    kmsfya May 23, 2020 7:34 pm
    Yeah, he really shouldn’t be doing this at all. It’s almost like he was being forced to, huh? Also, yes mentally stable people just absolutely LOVE to be choked to death. They adore almost being murdered &l... juuulya

    chanwoo was never CLAIMED to be unstable you dumb fuck!

    Biss May 23, 2020 7:36 pm
    WHEN WAS HE FORCED TO GO ALONG WITH THIS PLAY? IF ANYTHING HES THE ONE WHO oh i don’t know went fucking along with it at the cafe? stop making excuses for him because you enjoy that. show me an episode where ... kmsfya

    Do they discuss every element before scene? Because he was shocked when he was made to make out with other guy. He didn't give consent to that. MD is crossing the line. And pressuring him into play by making some conditions which impact his choices.

    juuulya May 23, 2020 7:39 pm
    WHEN WAS HE FORCED TO GO ALONG WITH THIS PLAY? IF ANYTHING HES THE ONE WHO oh i don’t know went fucking along with it at the cafe? stop making excuses for him because you enjoy that. show me an episode where ... kmsfya

    Mentally/emotionally unstable people and coerced people cannot consent. Once MD realized Chanwoo is unstable, everything after that became non consensual.

    juuulya May 23, 2020 7:41 pm
    chanwoo was never CLAIMED to be unstable you dumb fuck! kmsfya

    “What do you mean they’re unstable? They said yes last time, so that means they said yes this time too.”

    Lmfao get mad, abuse excuser. Maybe from this you can learn the difference between consensual and non consensual acts.

    RecessiveGene May 23, 2020 7:45 pm
    chanwoo was never CLAIMED to be unstable you dumb fuck! kmsfya

    oh please, he can't say the safeword despite being strangled to death my MD, he can't even leave his abusive ex to the point he was beaten. idk Chanwoo has issues. alright? stop gaslighting

    kmsfya May 23, 2020 7:47 pm
    “What do you mean they’re unstable? They said yes last time, so that means they said yes this time too.”Lmfao get mad, abuse excuser. Maybe from this you can learn the difference between consensual and no... juuulya

    like i said show me a chapter where it says he’s mentally unstable. i’m WAITING

    kmsfya May 23, 2020 7:48 pm
    oh please, he can't say the safeword despite being strangled to death my MD, he can't even leave his abusive ex to the point he was beaten. idk Chanwoo has issues. alright? stop gaslighting RecessiveGene

    and stop making excuses for someone who doesn’t know how to use a safe word when needed . do more research on what actual BDSM is

    RecessiveGene May 23, 2020 7:48 pm

    OP would still defend MD because he is hot lmao

    juuulya May 23, 2020 7:49 pm
    like i said show me a chapter where it says he’s mentally unstable. i’m WAITING kmsfya

    Idk what you’re waiting for, since I clearly said it was when he was nearly choked to death. But while I’m at it, I’ll also point to the handful of times where he said he was ok when his face was bruised

    RecessiveGene May 23, 2020 7:50 pm
    and stop making excuses for someone who doesn’t know how to use a safe word when needed . do more research on what actual BDSM is kmsfya

    you also need to know when someone is being abused or not. with your weak ass arguments, I guess your only reading material are 50 shades of grey and yaoi

    juuulya May 23, 2020 7:51 pm
    OP would still defend MD because he is hot lmao RecessiveGene

    LITERALLY tho smfh if MD was ugly or a woman, nobody would be defending them. Fucking disgusting is what it is.

    kmsfya May 23, 2020 7:51 pm
    OP would still defend MD because he is hot lmao RecessiveGene

    no i just know first hand experience what bdsm is y’all just want chanwoo to be this sort of saint when he agreed to everything

    kmsfya May 23, 2020 7:52 pm
    LITERALLY tho smfh if MD was ugly or a woman, nobody would be defending them. Fucking disgusting is what it is. juuulya

    i did not go through bdsm with with a woman for you to assume i’d think differently LMAO just say you’re sensitive and go