does bdsm really involve slapping people? that sounds a lot like all the other abusive relationships he has been in. except now it has a pretty label to somehow make it ok.
well DM is a sadist, a very badass one XD
right, but obviously Chanwoo found the slap unsettling. MD needs to chill
I mean bdsm involves choking and whipping and candle wax poured on the body so I wouldn’t say slapping is not involved and I wouldn’t say it’s toxic. Also md repeatedly said so many times “chanwoo are you okay? You can use the safe word you know?” So I find it hard to believe someone who took care of chanwoo like that even after their bdsm play is abusive. And tbh people like chanwoo needs something big to shake them up or they never learn.
Yes yes bdsm is all about pleasure derived from pain
Ikrrr
That is incorrect, pain isn’t all that’s there. Slapping can be a limit to some subs and he clearly knew that slapping on the face was triggering from Chanwoo. You should never try to push past their limits because trust and patience is key.
Well idk much about that but all I can say -like I also said in my other comment- Chanwoo is like a kid playing with fire, unless he gets burned he won’t stop, but if he just keeps feeling the heat of the fire he won’t learn that flame is not a toy to play with.
In other words chanwoo needs something strong to shake him up and learn how to admit his limits. I would say MD is being the flame to burn him here, I don’t think it has anything to do with MD being angry or something or bridging their trust (cuz they have done worse than that, he even choked him) From the looks of it I would say this is an opportunity to make chanwoo learn or he won’t stop. The way chanwoo is acting looks like he doesn’t want that guy to be MD’s sub, so if he doesn’t want it he has to learn to speak up if u don’t push him that much chanwoo won’t learn from his hard head personality. So I wouldn’t consider that abuse cuz in their normal play I bet u 90% that chanwoo would not hate the slap, the only reason he would right now is because he feels MD is favoring that ex sub over him.
totally agree with you
Right. Tbh if MD used a whip (that hurts 10 times more than a slap) I know people wouldn’t be complaining it’s abuse this much. I just think a “slap” rubs them the wrong way. It’s like a girl punches a guy stomach and everyone laughs it off as her trying hard like “it probably doesn’t hurt the guy (it probably does cuz it’s a punch to the stomach) but when she slaps the guy they all call it disrespectful, her being a bitch and whatever.
Again, regardless of if that’s a kink for him it clearly wasn’t the time for him to do that. If your sub feels uncomfortable and you give a ultimatum to them to make them do something, that’s no longer Dominating it’s manipulation.
they use abuse too much and I think they lost the meaning of the word abuse. I hope Chan will learn his lesson and stop playing with fire. until then I won't feel sorry for any of them.
Ahaha I really don’t have any negative feelings towards any of them I just wanna know where this story goes and want chanwoo to FINALLY LEARN HIS LESSON. But I think we have to wait couple of chapters for that T^T and everyone thinks MD is venting his frustrations on chanwoo because he got rejected, but I think not.
you right cause we actually don't know what MD is thinking at all. so it only their guess they count on, which can be a hall of wrong so ╮(￣▽￣)╭ and it's not that I "hate" or "love" them either, I just don't care at this point when happening to them. especially Chan.
it kinda fun not to feel any sympathy for once and the characters are not totally insane, makes me feel free in a way.
Lmao I get what u mean
I just wanted to say I TOLD YALL SOO
Am sorry but chanwoo u deserved that. It’s about damn time u learn. (I would say he didn’t deserve the slap but hey it’s bdsm he’s been through worse it probably only affects him that md is even considering that guy and if he cries it’s prolly cuz he’s hurting emotionally. But still I think he needs this much to learn seeing as his past experience didn’t do the trick)
And as for MD I just wanna say you....you are a fucking sadist man through and through. He probably has master’s degrees and whatever