Like literally it only takes few minutes to understand why people are upset. They made so many good points and you shallow it all to being upset about slap, when it's literally not it.
Why should he try to be with someone... If he doesn't reciprocate their feelings or just doesn't want to? He should force himself? Also it's clear he didn't want to mix his BDSM relationship with personal, romantic one because it could completely shift the dynamics of either of them.
I'm not really an expert with how BDSM relationship works, I do get the general idea but not to the point I have accuracy about. I'm stating that as a person, who has not been in a BDSM relationship or neither an M or S that their are people so ready to jump on MD's case for slapping Chanwoo even tho he's done something way worse than how I (personally a person that does not have that kind of kink) precive. It was not my intention to shallow any other person's personal perspective, I just wanted to get my point across. And my comment was not meant to disregard what other people pointed out, I just wanted to share my personal thoughts. If my ideas or thoughts seemed shallow than I apologize for that.
Please see my topic, if you really are wanting to learn why everyone is upset
I also thought that their personal intrest and personal hobby would get in the way of their relationship. But isnt it selfish for Chanwoo to do that to MD too? What I meant is Chanwoo is aware of MD's feelings yet he wants to continue their BDSM relationship while he has a romantic relatioship with another. What if the guy did not have an intrest with MD and actually ended up with being in a relationship with Chanwoo? I was imagining what MD would feel, keeping this BDSM relationship with the person he likes while the person he like is in a relationship with another. Its not like I want Chanwoo to be forced into a relationship, and I would never want that to happen to him.
Could I just scroll down or did u just recently posted the topic? Either way I'll inform you if I cant find it.
I found your topic and I'm sorry, I've now understood. I've also come to realize that MD, as the older person, should've been more considerate of Chanwoo's feelings. Thank you for shraing your statements and making more educated about it.
You’re welcome, I’m glad I could clear up any misunderstandings. Bdsm is more complex than most people assume, and it can be easy to misunderstand. And I also forgot about their age gap, md is technically the wiser (since he’s older), so that adds to the argument against supporting him
Ig I was one of those people who assumed. I oversimplified the BDSM play in my head. I thought its more of a play where people who are willing to be hurt for pleasure and the people willing to hurt for pleasure already has a mutual agreement between them. I've totally brushed off the fact consent should always be asked no matter how far or deep a realtionship is. Thank you again for adding your statements.
I am glad you are someone who’s open minded about this, not every one can understand that.
I'm really glad to hear that. Truthfully my emotions get the best of me and most of the time I'm rather blinded by my own statements that I give no room for debate nor a chance to educate myself.
I think yall forgetting they are in a BDSM relationship. Yall Chanwoo is stubborn person, he knows he's hurting and yet he wont accept MD's help or at least try to be with him. Whats more, its not like MD is forcing Chanwoo into any of these. Like yall seem to forget Chanwoo likes it rough. The fact that a slap made u go crazy confuses me. MD made him walk around the park with sex toys and over him, Chanwoo acted like a dog and acutally drank water in a dog plate (? I dunno whats it called) and ur getting frantic over the fact that he got slapped, um hello? U forgot he whipped his fat cake (pun intended). Yh sure, probably in this scenes it kinda makes u mad at MD for hurting precious Chanwoo but like stop and think for a moment. MD cared for Chanwoo and I think its really evident. In this case, Chanwoo getting hurt is his own fault bcuz 1) He ended up liking yet another bad person and 2) His own stubborn self forced MD to show what he gonna miss if he left him.