Also I think Dongha is the kind of expressing his feelings through actions rather than words so I kinda understand him a bit. Yes, words can give assurance but sometimes due to different things that happened in life or just because of ones own personality it's super difficult to say things like that, so if you like someone you buy them food, help them, etc. It took me years to say to my friends that I like them/ I care about them, and I've had people telling me the same things but not being supportive or actually caring about me
Also I think Dongha is the kind of expressing his feelings through actions rather than words so I kinda understand him a bit. Yes, words can give assurance but sometimes due to different things that happened in life or just because of ones own personality it's super difficult to say things like that, so if you like someone you buy them food, help them, etc.
It took me years to say to my friends that I like them/ I care about them, and I've had people telling me the same things but not being supportive or actually caring about me