The fact that this post have nearly 50 likes is horrifying.
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Right lmao. People hating on it clearly don’t know how BDSM works much less been in a sub dom relationship
OMFG. BDSM is about FULL CONSENT, SAFETY AND OLEASURE, SATISFACTION of both partners. Did you see anything like that in the play with other sub? Did you?
Oh so 'manipulation' is a part of this BDSM reality? New info. They had a mutual agreement to seperate their private lives and their sexual relationship. MD did what he did because he has ulterior motives. He intentionally placed someone in an uncomfortable situation just to push his ideals on chanwoo. Whatever the reason is doing something that you know will hurt another person is wrong. Im not commenting on the slap or the play they do, rather the situation that MD created. Get off your high horse and stop thinking that you know whats best for another person. I just hope you wont be intentionally hurting someone just because you think they need a lesson or that they deserved it.
Lmfaoooo why tf are u blaming him for getting beat on by his ex bf ur disgusting
Yep. I did. Safe words are there for a reason sweetheart. If it was past the point of comfort for the sub, he was capable of saying the word/phrase at anytime to stop.
Him and his partner were Not in a bdsm relationship, I’m not talking abt MD, I’m talking abt his ex that gave him bruises
this post is too true! Chan show he can go against MD and say the safe word, he just never did! and it's annoying me to no end! and the fact Chan dare to show off his new "bf" was fucking low from his part and shameless! he got what he needed and there is no reason to make Chan into a baby that can't decide things for himself.
shame the trolls will still whine how the baby can even decide shit now.
Your pov is toxic and ignorant I have no words.
Wasn’t talking to you dear. Try to keep up. In response to your earlier comment:
Radical honesty can be tough on the feeble minded. I’m an abuse survivor, one that is lucky to be alive and my experiences have shown me that there is a point where you have fault. Never said it was deserved, abuse is never deserved, but there is fault when the person continues to get into those relationships.
If you get beat up (in a non-consenting way) and continue to go back to them or seek out partners with the same qualities there is an issue with you. And if you fail to address it, work on it, identify past traumas and reasons why you continue to get into abusive relationships, you have blame. Again, doesn’t mean you deserve it or it is right, but you have a responsibility to check yourself when you continuously wind up in the same fucked up situation.
Good. Don't let the door hit you on the way out :)
The other comments didn’t load dipshit, you said it like he was the only one to blame, if he has a cycle of bad relationships, the fault is not entirely his, I think we can both agree but the way you said it made it seem that way.
Also plss do some research on bdsm, I’ve been into it and this had different motives, they both know it was wrong which is why MD apologized.
Seriously I feel like crying while going through this comment section.
If you don’t know what bdsm is, stop trying to propagate your misunderstandings smfh especially since you clearly don’t know jack shit about bdsm lmaoooo
Keep reading your 50 Shades doll.
Chan isn't a victim if he chooses to stay!! IT WAS HIS CHOICE!! if you don't get what responsibility means on your actions! you too young to read this. STOP READING if you too young for this.
Go back to reading your 50 Shades doll.
Like... It looks like you based your "knowledge" on such positions.
Y’all snowflakes blow my mind. MD is in the wrong? He’s not a good Dom/BDSM partner? What?
Chanwoo keeps allowing himself to be BEAT up by his boyfriends and goes back for more. He NEVER says the safe word during play with MD even when MD feels it is past where they should go. He rejects MD then tries to bring his NEW BF to meet MD fully knowing how MD feels about him. Seriously, the boy needed a taste of his own medicine and a sharp wake up call. Which he got.
For all the soft kiddies whining about MD: BDSM is more than physical. It’s emotional and mental. It’s breaking down, humiliating and other “not nice” strategic play meant to completely shatter and release you. MD did a fantastic job, he quit immediately at the safe word and is shown practicing after care (hugging/comforting) directly after. If you don’t like the realities of what BDSM is, don’t participate and stop reading this side story. Simple as that.