BDSM Realities

Gidget May 30, 2020 4:04 pm

Y’all snowflakes blow my mind. MD is in the wrong? He’s not a good Dom/BDSM partner? What?
Chanwoo keeps allowing himself to be BEAT up by his boyfriends and goes back for more. He NEVER says the safe word during play with MD even when MD feels it is past where they should go. He rejects MD then tries to bring his NEW BF to meet MD fully knowing how MD feels about him. Seriously, the boy needed a taste of his own medicine and a sharp wake up call. Which he got.
For all the soft kiddies whining about MD: BDSM is more than physical. It’s emotional and mental. It’s breaking down, humiliating and other “not nice” strategic play meant to completely shatter and release you. MD did a fantastic job, he quit immediately at the safe word and is shown practicing after care (hugging/comforting) directly after. If you don’t like the realities of what BDSM is, don’t participate and stop reading this side story. Simple as that.

Responses
    Biss May 30, 2020 5:51 pm
    Chan isn't a victim if he chooses to stay!! IT WAS HIS CHOICE!! if you don't get what responsibility means on your actions! you too young to read this. STOP READING if you too young for this. maychan

    I hope you are too young because this ignorance would be worrying if you are above 20.

    Gidget May 30, 2020 5:57 pm
    I hope you are too young because this ignorance would be worrying if you are above 20. Biss

    It’s more dangerous that people like you walk around with rose colored blinders.

    Gidget May 30, 2020 6:00 pm
    Like... It looks like you based your "knowledge" on such positions. Biss

    I actually based my knowledge on being part of local BDSM chapters, attending seminars, actively participating in dom/sub relationships as both roles and having close friendships with many others in the community. Where do you get your “knowledge” from sweety?

    juuulya May 30, 2020 6:05 pm
    I actually based my knowledge on being part of local BDSM chapters, attending seminars, actively participating in dom/sub relationships as both roles and having close friendships with many others in the communi... Gidget

    Bruh, you’re not fooling anybody here. Don’t you have multiplication hw to do?

    Biss May 30, 2020 6:09 pm
    I actually based my knowledge on being part of local BDSM chapters, attending seminars, actively participating in dom/sub relationships as both roles and having close friendships with many others in the communi... Gidget

    Either you are lying or they are misinformed and ignorants. I'm med student hon. In two years I will be a doctor. And I have seen more humble professors of medicine who could admit to mistake than you.
    Sorry but with this pov you will either hurt your partner or you will be hurt.

    Biss May 30, 2020 6:10 pm
    I actually based my knowledge on being part of local BDSM chapters, attending seminars, actively participating in dom/sub relationships as both roles and having close friendships with many others in the communi... Gidget

    And I'm especially sensitive about uneducated and irresponsible/unsafe BDSM plays because I had doubtful pleasure to see the results of such plays.

    Gidget May 30, 2020 6:11 pm
    Either you are lying or they are misinformed and ignorants. I'm med student hon. In two years I will be a doctor. And I have seen more humble professors of medicine who could admit to mistake than you. Sorry b... Biss

    Lmao, what does being in medicine have to do with BDSM? You just admitted to having zero knowledge. Please sit the fuck down.

    Biss May 30, 2020 6:16 pm
    Lmao, what does being in medicine have to do with BDSM? You just admitted to having zero knowledge. Please sit the fuck down. Gidget

    "And I'm especially sensitive about uneducated and irresponsible/unsafe BDSM plays because I had doubtful pleasure to see the results of such plays".
    It's the continuation. And I used to be interested in the topic...but man it's even a common sense. Simple, logical common sense and empathy. You seriously don't understand the base. Elementar roles.

    Gidget May 30, 2020 6:16 pm
    Bruh, you’re not fooling anybody here. Don’t you have multiplication hw to do? juuulya

    I’m not trying to fool anyone though? :) My homework consists more of node.js and .NET, having an understanding of maths helps though.
    Bruh, does calling someone a bruh make you feel like a big boy, bruh?

    Biss May 30, 2020 6:17 pm
    Lmao, what does being in medicine have to do with BDSM? You just admitted to having zero knowledge. Please sit the fuck down. Gidget

    And it was example that even people with titles who has worked in some field for years can be mistaken and misinformed... And you are acting like holy truth.

    Biss May 30, 2020 6:18 pm
    I’m not trying to fool anyone though? :) My homework consists more of node.js and .NET, having an understanding of maths helps though. Bruh, does calling someone a bruh make you feel like a big boy, bruh? Gidget

    You are such specialist you can't even see a clear coercion. Clap clap I'm impressed.

    Biss May 30, 2020 6:18 pm
    And it was example that even people with titles who has worked in some field for years can be mistaken and misinformed... And you are acting like holy truth. Biss

    Have*

    Gidget May 30, 2020 6:19 pm
    "And I'm especially sensitive about uneducated and irresponsible/unsafe BDSM plays because I had doubtful pleasure to see the results of such plays".It's the continuation. And I used to be interested in the top... Biss

    Same. At first I was enjoying the back and forth. But now I’m tiring at the ignorance. It’s gotten to where I don’t even want to push your buttons anymore :( Sadly, this play session is done on my end. Do continue to moan to your hearts content though.

    Biss May 30, 2020 6:21 pm
    Same. At first I was enjoying the back and forth. But now I’m tiring at the ignorance. It’s gotten to where I don’t even want to push your buttons anymore :( Sadly, this play session is done on my end. Do... Gidget

    You are just uneducated and ignorant who will most likely get hurt or hurt someone else. I can only feel sympathy for your supposedly partners.

    ThatLitShit May 30, 2020 6:26 pm
    Same. At first I was enjoying the back and forth. But now I’m tiring at the ignorance. It’s gotten to where I don’t even want to push your buttons anymore :( Sadly, this play session is done on my end. Do... Gidget

    I don’t wanna challenge ur ignorant, hurtful views but the FIRST thing you learn abt bdsm is consent and boundaries, Also telling ppl to go back to reading 50 shades ain’t doing shit, UR BASICALLY READING THE SAME THING, Imma go now, ur clearly either underage or insanely dumb