Oof

DUMBHOE May 30, 2020 7:15 pm

Even though MD’s actions are toxic, I still find them sorta excusable and understand them. And for those comments that say I’m only doing this because MD is hot or something, are you dumb? Are you thar dim-witted to think that all people still think like that? This is 2020 wake up. People have changed and the times have matured. I am well aware of what MD has done, but can you take into consideration what Chanwoo has done? MD isnt the only one whose lied and had wrong actions. A lot (not all) Chanwoo stans don’t take into consideration what Chanwoo has also done to MD and is just blindingly blaming MD for manipulating and doing something this toxic. (Which I agree he’s done something toxic and manipulative) but you don’t seem to understand why he’s doing this. But also a lot (not all) MD stans arent taking into consideration what Chanwoo is feeling and what’s hes also been through too. Please take both sides into consideration, let’s just all be happy they’ve made up. (By the looks of it) and I’m not saying we excuse both of their actions because they’ve both done wrong, but I’m saying let’s just be happy for the momentary happy scene. Thank you




Btw: when Chanwoo cried my heart actually sunk. Like I actually felt that.

Responses
    Gyusob May 30, 2020 6:16 pm

    People absolutely still think like that in 2020, just because the times have progressed doesnt mean people dont have ignorant thoughts ingrained in them by society. Also you never contribute to what CW did wrong, I would like to know what you think cause this comment seems half written.

    DUMBHOE May 30, 2020 6:32 pm
    People absolutely still think like that in 2020, just because the times have progressed doesnt mean people dont have ignorant thoughts ingrained in them by society. Also you never contribute to what CW did wron... Gyusob

    Oh the reason I didn’t write that was because I’ve already written it in previous chapters and people have already pointed it out, so I thought where was no need to talk about it. The thing Chanwoo did “wrong” was when MD asked him about his BF and the abuse he didn’t answer. I’m not saying he had to tell MD, we don’t know what Chanwoo was going through but we do know that hurt MD a bit. But that’s not really important, the main thing Chanwoo did wrong was rejecting MD and saying he wasn’t ready for a relationship, but then meeting another dude and then dating him. He shouldn’t have lied to MD like that, I know he was just nervous and scared to be in relationship with MD and losing the relationship he already had with MD, but he should’ve just told MD what he was thinking, instead of letting MD get hurt and doing this toxic payback thing. But like I’ve said before, Chanwoo is hurting, so I wouldn’t have expected him to just straight out tell MD about his feelings. It’s really all in perspective, they’re both in the wrong. And they just need to work it out (:

    Gyusob May 30, 2020 6:38 pm
    Oh the reason I didn’t write that was because I’ve already written it in previous chapters and people have already pointed it out, so I thought where was no need to talk about it. The thing Chanwoo did “w... DUMBHOE

    I disagree, I think Chanwoo was just vague enough for it not to be a lie, he was not obligated to spill out his life story and is allowed to keep things strictly professional. However it is the most valid point that counters what I think, thanks for the perspective. Let's agree to disagree :)))

    Gyusob May 30, 2020 6:38 pm
    Oh the reason I didn’t write that was because I’ve already written it in previous chapters and people have already pointed it out, so I thought where was no need to talk about it. The thing Chanwoo did “w... DUMBHOE

    *the most valid point I've read

    ygirljae May 30, 2020 7:06 pm

    I don’t even wanna argue but you think that society isn’t based on looks in 2020? Like idk if we live in the same world? This shit is real it has been proven and there many studies on this, why do you think so many people don’t even get jobs because of biases on their appearance ? I can’t

    DUMBHOE May 30, 2020 7:12 pm
    I don’t even wanna argue but you think that society isn’t based on looks in 2020? Like idk if we live in the same world? This shit is real it has been proven and there many studies on this, why do you think... ygirljae

    I didn’t say society wasn’t based on looks, I’m just saying that not EVERYONE is basing things on looks. But thank you

    Gyusob May 30, 2020 7:12 pm
    I don’t even wanna argue but you think that society isn’t based on looks in 2020? Like idk if we live in the same world? This shit is real it has been proven and there many studies on this, why do you think... ygirljae

    I'm not talking about jobs in this instance. I'm talking about the fact that people give attractive people the benefit of the doubt more often and are more likely to excuse their actions. I've seen this play out in person.
    Also just because there are sources saying it isnt there, doesnt automatically validate your point. There are sources claiming the earth is flat, we shouldnt take everything at face value.

    Gyusob May 30, 2020 7:14 pm
    I don’t even wanna argue but you think that society isn’t based on looks in 2020? Like idk if we live in the same world? This shit is real it has been proven and there many studies on this, why do you think... ygirljae

    LMAO I MISINTERPRETED THIS FKUFKFJF NVM HOW DO I DELETE THIS

    Gyusob May 30, 2020 7:15 pm
    I don’t even wanna argue but you think that society isn’t based on looks in 2020? Like idk if we live in the same world? This shit is real it has been proven and there many studies on this, why do you think... ygirljae

    YOURE COMPLETELY WRITE, FUCK, IM A CLOWN

    ygirljae May 30, 2020 7:17 pm
    YOURE COMPLETELY WRITE, FUCK, IM A CLOWN Gyusob

    LMFAO THX I WAS CONFUSED

    ygirljae May 30, 2020 7:18 pm
    I didn’t say society wasn’t based on looks, I’m just saying that not EVERYONE is basing things on looks. But thank you DUMBHOE

    Uhm yes it’s not like people are going to admit it whole heartedly. the fact that people defend a hot dude who did something not cool bc he is HOT? Who would admit to it? I wouldn’t lol but that doesn’t concern me.

    DUMBHOE May 30, 2020 7:21 pm
    Uhm yes it’s not like people are going to admit it whole heartedly. the fact that people defend a hot dude who did something not cool bc he is HOT? Who would admit to it? I wouldn’t lol but that doesn’t c... ygirljae

    Yes that is why the people who are ‘defending’ him and not letting his ‘hotness’ define him, are trying to explain their thinking.

    ygirljae May 30, 2020 7:25 pm
    Yes that is why the people who are ‘defending’ him and not letting his ‘hotness’ define him, are trying to explain their thinking. DUMBHOE

    But their are no valid arguments tho? Haven’t u seen all the comments about how « I still love him, he’s such a hottie uwu, do that to me » even my sister said that’s only cuz he’s hot she wouldn’t care if he was ugly so like trust me nobody will even admit or some may not even realize but if MD was a very ugly guy the situation wouldn’t be the same.

    DUMBHOE May 30, 2020 7:30 pm
    But their are no valid arguments tho? Haven’t u seen all the comments about how « I still love him, he’s such a hottie uwu, do that to me » even my sister said that’s only cuz he’s hot she wouldn’... ygirljae

    But haven’t you also seen the comments with actual valid arguments? And I’ve definitely seen those comments too but I ignore them. I think what you need to do, is take BOTH sides into consideration.