
i as a women, feel offended more and more how you can just tell what kind of super twisted image some people have of males...like dude...they are not all sex addicts who just need to be satisfied to be happy...like the heck is this...they get raped and because the rapist finds their sweet spots, is handsome and stuff boom love forever...a notorious cheating asshole stalks a guy and then gets converted cause this particular ass is holy or something and never cheats anymore or is suddenly like a different person....or a seme always always need immediate sex, whenever they see some kind of mutual response from the uke....like calm your horses people....it were ok if those plots made a lot of sense within and were like just a part of it all...but the yaoi scene is overflowing with them, even now that the world is more knowledgabe and stuff than a few years back where people could kinda tolerate and understand where these plots came from (read history of yaoi)...but not anymore...like come on...if you write about men, then try to educate yourself about men....all these stereotypes really get boring as hell and even the hot sex scenes cannot be enjoyed anymore, when the whole plot does not build up to it in a way that it makes sense to a human being....

Take a look at 苑生 (@h_sindo_0): https://twitter.com/h_sindo_0?s=09
I'm gonna be honest, I did have a little hope that we'd get some ace rep in this even though the trauma recovery theory was always more plausible given that this is yaoi. now I feel like the author is implying more and more that tamaki does have repressed sexual desires... so this is probably going to turn into smth like "dick cured his trauma" and that's sad but eh... I guess
I'm still not ok with shii being so obnoxiously forceful. him being a "horny teenager" is no excuse for everything he's doing and asserting dominance or an abundance of confidence by forcing yourself on your partner who is still uncomfortable is neither cute nor hot. furthermore, it should not be the way to get said partner out of their shell or cure their trauma.