As sad as this situation is, I’m so happy that the woman and huan wen met each other. I ...

diddl June 12, 2020 3:49 pm

As sad as this situation is, I’m so happy that the woman and huan wen met each other. I really hope that this relationship turns out to be an unexpected friendship. It’s just so nice if they could talk about all these things since both are in similar situations and never had someone to talk to about it.

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    Cherry June 12, 2020 5:45 pm
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    What does your reply have to do with the actual comment?

    AsamiHirose June 12, 2020 8:40 pm
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    That's...not even true bro. Like for real, they're not "turning", they've never stated they were straight. Have you never been confused about your sexuality? It's also in China. Your thinking is just completely idiotic.
    I don't think they are clichés either, it doesn't feel like so, at least, they have real relationships formed between them.

    AsamiHirose June 12, 2020 9:12 pm
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    Bro, sexuality is so flowy, you can't just settle, it's super hard. I do'nt know if you've been yourself in that case but it's super difficult to figure things out. I think that when she said he was straight, she probably wanted to say he wasn't going to go after guys himself. Like I said ~China~ you can't blame the author for everything, have you seen that country's mindset ? Don't forget that they are being censored like hell, it's actually hella hard to publish a bl story in China, don't be too hard on them either. They're probably just winging it, hell they had to censor the kisses. I think some stories are way more problematic than this one, but just chill,out man, it's still very relaxing and moving.

    bre June 13, 2020 3:11 am
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    bro we don’t even know where the story is gonna go, you don’t know if he’s gonna come out or not. why u pressed over that. and u reading for free????? buy the actual webtoon THEN speak your opinion.

    diddl June 13, 2020 9:55 pm
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    We don’t know yet whether or not they will actually stay in the closet. I also want to see the woman and huan wen come out and honestly I feel like that they probably help each other?! At least I’m hoping for that

    diddl June 13, 2020 10:03 pm
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    I agree I don’t like this “I’m only gay for you“ theme either. I didn’t know that Lihuan was straight bc in the manwha itself I think he said he doesn’t know. I mean idk if I recall this correctly he didn’t even say this: I’m only gay for you. he was more like: I’ve never thought about it, until know.
    If the author really said it like that, there’s obviously a right to criticize it. But if I look solely at Lihuans character himself, I don’t think he was straight.

    diddl June 13, 2020 10:17 pm
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    I think it’s not necessarily a negative portrayal. There are lgbtq stories that show how it is to already live in a world where being queer etc. is fully being accepted. And I love that. But then there are also stories that go the more realistic route of showing all the negative sides that people encounter in real life. All the things you listed are not outdated. And I think especially not in countries like China, so I wouldn’t agree even you say outdated. It’s not as if these problems don’t occur daily in a lot of countries.
    Also yes yuyangs Family wasn’t supportive at first but isn’t that in a lot of families. Plus there are positive vibes: his family starts to change and accept, lihuans dad was supportive from the start, they are a healthy cute couple living together, having a family. As for uncle pan, I think his commitment issues don’t just stem from him being gay. It’s more like he has had problems in the past which led to his attitude. I see here u are as more of a mix of all things. We have someone that was brave and came out, had problems and misunderstandings with his parents, was bullied but now is confidently gay, happy in love and his family is starting to accept and support more and more. We have someone that still is closeted, someone that wears a mask at all times. Someone that’s afraid to speak out and destroy all he has with his family, society etc. We have lihuan who is seemingly doing everything like he feels being confident and strong, who has the luck to be supported by his dad since the beginning. We have pan that went through all of this and didn’t have that luck or attitude to have relationships like that. Someone that doesn’t know how to be in a serious relationship etc etc. There is a lot of drama I agree. At times I also thought it was being dragged,not gonna lie. But there are a lot of positive things happening too, so I don’t feel like it’s that dramatic and sad and negative. It’s just life. And the characters are just different in their lifestyles and personalities. Also they are at different stages in terms of being gay ( I mean yuyang, huan wen, pan etc) but no one’s experience is fully representing either stage. Bc they are this different