Haesoo needs to his attitude

Anime&manga June 18, 2020 12:25 am

Taku and Joowon are a mess and but I feel like Haesoo is so toxic imo, but of course nobody dares to call him that because in yaoi communty "it's NOT allowed to drag ukes" ppl like to talk crazy about semes all the time bc they're manly
However, I feel like Haesoo doesn't know how to take responsibility, he doesn't know how make up his mind. When he's with Jiwoon, he thinks about Taku, when he's Taku, he thinks about Joowon . He just throws himself into a toxic relationship when he's not ready for it. He sleeps with someone every time he's depressed and that's where the problem starts.Taku and Joowon aren't perfect too but they act more mature than Haesoo IMO

Responses
    YvesSaintBeach June 18, 2020 12:30 am

    Preach!

    karie June 18, 2020 5:14 am

    i get where you're coming from but i think it's more of how his and joowon's relationship first came about? I don't think, at least what im gathering from the flashback, Haesoo had many friends in the first place and his one friend had to move(?) because of some problems so he isn't exactly used to the healthiest relationships. His mother and him have a good relationship? at least when joowon isnt in the picture. In chapters, i feel like haesoo is developing by ending the relationship with joowon because he's realized how horrible/wrong the relationship was. Even if they both love each other mutually, it was wrong from the start and the purity of young love is twisted into something different with only the remnants of love left. In this way i thought he took responsibility by ending it, and then he made an article to cover for taekyung's porno ? i thought that was kind of nice. And sleeping with people is like an unhealthy coping mechanism because it takes his mind off the worrying topic? I'm more biased towards Haesoo because he is my favorite character and i like to explore how he thinks, so if you have any things to object to im open! oh and idk if joowon and taku r rlly that much more mature than haesoo? to allow ur sex tape to get into the internet and ruin ur career, that's kind of.. and then joowon would completely stop his career as an actor for haesoo.. i just think all of the characters could be a little better.. or a lot.

    Anime&manga June 19, 2020 2:28 am
    i get where you're coming from but i think it's more of how his and joowon's relationship first came about? I don't think, at least what im gathering from the flashback, Haesoo had many friends in the first pla... karie

    He did good job by breaking up with Joowon but he still think about him whenever he's with Taku, its like he can't stay in a relationship without thinking of someone else, give it few chapters and he will go back to Joowon and then the same thing will happen over and over again. Heasoo needs to DECIDE.

    Also, he can sleep with a random person if that what makes him forgot about his problems BUT the issue is that he starts a whole relationship with these random ppl and then new drama will begin.

    The reason why Taku and Joowon are messing up their careers is bc they love Haesoo and they would do EVERYTHING for him but Heasoo is starting relationship with and then outta nowhere he breaks up with them and put them away and that why they doing this, they want to prove him that like him. But Taku and Joowon are toxic in their own way too. I never said they are perfect. I like three of them but Haesoo needs to decide who to stay with bc its getting tiring

    YvesSaintBeach June 19, 2020 3:14 am
    He did good job by breaking up with Joowon but he still think about him whenever he's with Taku, its like he can't stay in a relationship without thinking of someone else, give it few chapters and he will go ba... Anime&manga

    Periodt. Haesoo is stuck between a rock and a hard place. He got a lot of issues and hasn’t moved on yet. He needs to grow the f up! He needs to let go of that pride.

    Anime&manga June 19, 2020 3:35 am
    Periodt. Haesoo is stuck between a rock and a hard place. He got a lot of issues and hasn’t moved on yet. He needs to grow the f up! He needs to let go of that pride. YvesSaintBeach

    On God...Heasoo is stressing me out

    karie June 19, 2020 4:22 am
    He did good job by breaking up with Joowon but he still think about him whenever he's with Taku, its like he can't stay in a relationship without thinking of someone else, give it few chapters and he will go ba... Anime&manga

    to be fair he has never committed himself to a relationship with either of them. as in official dating, it's always been an ambiguous relationship with him and joowon so there was never any certainty nor stability. He also has not decided to date taku yet. both joowon and taku are the ones who want haesoo, haesoo never asked either of them to throw away their careers. and yea i get that new drama begins from his past flings, i agree w u on that.

    also abt who haesoo needs to stay with, i think in reality, committing to a relationship means u have to be more decisive than throw yourself in. honestly id rather haesoo take a break and reflect on his past relationships and learn the difference between healthy and toxic instead.