
In my opinion, i think the FL is quite focused on her work. However, you should know not all doctors are successful in saving every patient's life. Also not all doctors have a healthy focused mindset all the time especially since the medical environment is quite tough to handle. That incident which involved the patient with the car accident basically triggered a trauma of the FL but she tried her best to focus and save the patient to which unfortunately fails. I honestly think she needs therapy first then she could continue. Mistakes happen but also long as she learnt it and tries her best to not repeat it she would be fine. It's all in the experience.
With the issue with her romance, i don't think it's bad to like someone. She acted normally rather than being a clingy, annoying, and pushy FL like you would see in other dramas.
You can see another reason why her family doesn't support her going for Emergency Medicine because it deals with patients who are in critical danger. Especially since she's like that yeah it's understandable why.

I have no problem with her being unable to save a patient. Nor do I expect her to be a perfect doctor after she just began.
What I do mind is that in every moment when there isn't emergency to save a patient, she is thinking about the dude and her love-life.
So far we haven't seen her made any plans to study or improve in any way regarding. For someone who claims to be so passionate and determinated to become doctor, she is actually not focused at all on improving or becoming a good doctor. Every time she is more worried about the dude being there, looking handsome or him dating someone, than actually if she has enough knowledge, what more can she learn or how can she become a better doctor.
Seems like for her, as long as she managed to apply and get a job in hospital - ano further work is needed.
gurl, i get it, you went through something bad and it sucks that happened but there’s a live on the line and you don’t have the luxury to be like that !!! get a hold of yourself!