As a guy myself I can tell you I've rather be fetishized over then hated ,and if it help progress ppl to accept me then I don't care I always was jealous of how guys thot lesbians were hot but sad when they called gays disgusting.
True but it would be annoying if people only liked you cause your gay
yeah i get that. it's uncomfortable knowing that you're being put on the spotlight or worshipped for being homosexual. especially with that "gay bff" shit like step off.
but yaoi is honestly just gay porn. yeah the situations could be unrealistic but it's honestly jus something for people to jerk off to. i do appreciate more realistic mangas/ manhwas though that focus on the relationship though and don't always have characters fucking. and the thing about girly guys or feminine "bottoms" are not my kinda type but i think it's okay to have a girly gay character as long as they're represented appropriately as the percentage of us who aren't necessarily masculine
true true
You know sometimes I think it’s wrong to like bl and that I’m fetishizing gay men. But then I think that’s stupid because yaoi is targeted towards girls. Plus it’s more about how it just sezualizes men unlike most non-bl manga. Like there’s limited Manga with just focusing on the girl being submissive and shy.