OMG YES THANK YOU INCOMPLETLY AGREE
Thanks for writing this, I also didnt like the idea of toxic just because they're siblings. So this argument really helps me put into words what I think of their relationship
Oops i meant i completely
Thank you. I've been saying most of this for years. Couldn't agree more
thank you all for read my comment.
That's exactly what I think too... Joowon and Haesoo hurt each other too much :/
1. You act as if character development doesn't exist.
2. Seriously I'm so happy that I will be satisfied with every ending. But everyone of you is gonna be so disappointed, upset of author would end up with Joowon and Haesoo. Seriously I have only one request: don't send hate to author omg IG or Twitter. Or whatever.
I can't stand how both sides pressured author to their ending.
And I can't agree on Taku part. He knew the situation (from novels) and still he, himself meddled into their loves and complicated situation. It's not like Haesoo's forced him to be with him or deceived him. No, Taku wanted to be a part of this himself.
And that's what really irritates me. The whole Taku will be a plot device, springboard. You know with this way of thinking. Everyone left behind can be treated as plot device. Look at the story. Joowon is barely there. We have seen more scenes with Taku and Haesoo than with Joowon. Joowon from a long time looks like side character. So he also would be a " plot device" if Taku and Haesoo would be together. So Haesoo would overcome his long love and find new love.
Regarding the first point:
I just didn't mention the development of the characters because otherwise I would have to do the book just to give my full opinion.
Obviously I noticed the development of the characters. Likewise, it is thanks to this development that the manhwa has a history with an end.
Regarding the second point:
Jesus. I would never do anything like that to chase the author on social media and threaten him. HAHAHAHAHA. This is not the first story where a ship that I like doesn't stay together.
#PeaceAndLove
When a person falls in love, he can't help it. Taku went straight and said "I love you". You say, it was he who got between them. It is true!
But I already said in my comment. A person does not choose whether the path is easy or difficult but the decision to walk around depends on us. And Taku made his decision.
In the same way that, if Taku doesn't stay with Haesoo, he will have to accept that.
Hmm you portrayed Taku as better, healthier option. You can be right on that because Haesoo's and Joowon's relationship was really tiring and problematic but for me thr second option isn't healthy neither. Their relationship barely started and it's already based on pretending? (Taku saying that Haesoo can even pretend to like him). It shouldn't look like that. It's not ok for both of them. Taku and Haesoo.
Also Taku entered the whole relationship with upper hand, there was clear power inbalance because he 'knew" Haesoo (from novels etc) and Haesoo didn't even know him. People say he treated him so much better, how gently. But imo at first it was more like created, calculated personal who said the sweetest things just to get closer to Haesoo.
Oh I was talking generally to all readers. You sound like a very cultured person, so I doubt you would attack the author.
Taku only told Haesoo to use it at the beginning. Later he says that he doesn't want him to be associated with anyone else and that he doesn't want him to sleep with anyone else.
Besides, I don't see the harm in calculating everything. When I start to like someone, I even start to see where to go just to get attention. The important fact is that until now (and I hope it doesn't), Taku has never been rude to him.
oh thanks, this is nice to hear.
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your comment is so good and accurate!(▰˘◡˘▰)
Yeah but still I don't know if the rather stalkerish approach when you encirclement your partner is the most healthy and sincere one. I'm not the fan of power inbalance there.
What's more it's really hard to compare "relationship" which lasted for decade with one which just began and there are already for me at least some unhealthy or at least rather problematic vibes. I don't like how Haesoo wanted time and space but Taku also wanted answer for his question.
For me both relationships don't look appealing or healthy in the slightest.
One day I saw a post on Instagram that said:
"A girl was in a relationship with a boy for 12 years but in the end they separated, after a while she managed to get another boyfriend and only 6 months later they decided to get married. Getting someone is not a matter of time, it is a matter of the person you met. "
In addition, for those who read the Skip Beat manga, they know that in the beginning the protagonist lived for years with the person she loved but that never worked (because there was no affection). So I think that being with a person for years does not imply that it's more stable.
What's more we are comparing relationship which was always impacted by their family circumstances, Joowon being famous actor etc and one which I can come up with: them being guys in SK but the same can be told about Joowon and Haesoo. And Taku going abroad.
And of course, I don't like the way Haesoo is undecided. If you love someone it is to fight for it, if you don't, then you cut off relationships and that is that.
Guys, I'm going to make a very long text because I really need to say this because I feel my heart is broken.
Most people who are against Jowoon say that they are siblings so it's toxic. Using that as an excuse doesn't make sense. I've seen hundreds of stories where they even involved real siblings and yet I was in favor of their relationship.
I'm from #teamTaku but the reason I don't like Jowoon is not because they're siblings but because I don't like the way he says he "protects" Haesoo.
Some time ago I read a light novel and two characters started talking about a couple who ended up breaking up.
One of them said: "If he really liked her but in the end they separeted, then it only shows what they had was only 'like' ".
An the other responded: "Things aren't always that absolute. Sometimes, it's not up to you to decide if the road is easy to walk".
An then the other said: "I might not be able to decide whether the road is easy or not, but whether I walk it is entirely up to me".
Both Haesoo and Jowoon were cowards to even try to resolve the situation. They didn't even think about solving it. It is as if, for them, that was already decided. It is ridiculous to be quiet and wait for something to change without taking action.
Also, even though Jowoon was worried about Haesoo, I can't forget that he once said, "You can't live without me, even if you're in a relationship now, you're going to break up with them and come back to me" ...
and also said: "If you died, nobody would be with you". (I no longer remember which chapter it was in).
This is painful to hear. Imagine that the person you like says things like that. Really hurts.
I can't understand why people want Jowoon x Haesoo when none of them showed real affection for each other.
I no longer care who Haesoo stays with but if he stays with Jowoon I will be disappointed by the character.
Someone said, "Going back to someone (ex) is like opening a book that you’ve read and you know the ending."
It's sad.
What will hurt me the most if they stay together is that I will feel that the Taku was only used as a springboard for these two to be together. He is a good person. He deserve better.
(my english is really bad, sorry)
don't hate me (my heart is in pieces and I needed to discharge my frustration)