I feel your pain buddy but luckily my mom it's the problem it's mostly relatives. they try and get my mom to do an arrange marriage with me and their son .(╯°Д °)╯╧╧ I am only 19yr bro, people getting married closer to their 30's now a days.
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wow, you have it rougher than me. I'm in my 20s Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
It's just that my home country is real narrow minded and only see me as a female that has not been wed yet, lol.
(〜￣△￣)〜 My older siblings don't see me getting married and my mom can't either, guess it's because I am the baby of the family? Also my mom wants to me to make something out of my life, then if I choose to get married to someone it's all my own choice,
but nosey relatives get in and question my mom about why i am not engaged or blah blah blah and other nonsense. That's what annoys me the most, and there's my new step dad(not really) who is sexist no doubt about that has told me that I should now how-to cook because women should and that women don't do much but complain about everything.
And when I told him I don't see myself getting married, he had the nerve to tell my mom she didn't rise her daughter right because I don't see the importance of marriage. ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ╧╧
And he had the nerve to say that if me and my sister were to live back in my home country that I have multiple boyfriend's, what he meant was a lot worse but I don't remember clearly what but my sister was real pissed about it.
It was something along the line that we would be corrupted by the environment there. To be honest I actually never have been in a relationship any type of on, been single for my whole life (￣∇￣").
And sorry for the real weird rant.
So, I don't know how to describe myself cause, you know, lately people are very PC. But I think I'm straight so the I'm not as stuck as Huan. But the grandpa scene with Yuyang is realllyyyyy hits home to me. Reminds me of my relatives so much. They always ask me when I will get married, my jobs, my studies. They even want to introduce guys to me. If they see my friends, they would ask the same questions... My gosh, why are people like this （/TДT)/