Sry meant to like
I meannn.. I reccomend reading just shounen ai if you want more of a romantic feeling where they actually build up the mood cuz with yaoi they usually prioritise or like make sex the main center point of the book with of course still having a romantic mood (=・ω・=)
What I meant was sth like in Hishakaishindo, where the relationship is very much yaoi but the progression of intimacy is also fast but still believable. Like, not going straight from confession to anal, but building up to it and getting to know each others bodies first...
Ohhh!! well then I reccomend reading longer yaoi books since books with shorter chapters tend to go straight to the point ^~^
It's actually realistic. I have so many gay friends and they do the same thing. I guess you can say that to hetero relationship coz girls are more conservative.
Or the homosexual ppl I know are conservative as well. Many complain to me about the superficiality in the gay community, including fast cheap sex.
but mangaka really need to stop with the confess- kiss- buttsex thing. That's hardly realistic.