
That is still just a sad train of thought to me tbh. Yh it's true most ppl who commit suicide don't see any other way out of their real life circumstances and likely suffer from something like depression, but I don't think that it should be something counted as a sin nor forgiven just bc it was proven that they yave issues, as if it wasn't obvious before the mentalitt changed to what you say it did. The truth is that regardless of how someone died, they deserve a funeral not for said person but for the people left behind. That's what funerals essentially are. The dead aren't going to stick around bc there was a funeral for them. People have funerals bc it's like a ceremony for them to deal with the death of someone they cared about. When someone is in their final moments, they are likely to think well about those close to them that they will be leaving. In the case of someone who comits suicide, it is entirely likely that they don't feel that close to anyone or just think about how to finally end whatever they are going through, but nonetheless someone out there is likely to know them and if a funeral is held it is because the people left behind decided that person deserves to be honored even if they themselves couldn't see another way out. -This is long but essentially, I mean what if someone only died in the midst of saving another person? They were prepared to be the ones who put themselves in such danger over someone else. As much as that is a form of disregard of their own life, it is typically honored in a good way. Life is life and everyone deserves to be treated with the respect of a person who had to deal eith this friggin world. It's close enough to a hell hole if you end up in a place you can't see any way out of and that you didnt have a chance to find out if you could fight the struggle and see a way out.
Grew up catholic. Questioning whether they know if you kill yourself you ain’t going upstairs...