They're the same person, just different alters

Peridot July 9, 2020 5:03 pm

They maybe different alters but they are a system and should be recognized as one system. Ray is another personality that Sooha developed unconsciously. Ray is there to protect the host, Sooha. It might be confusing, but I honestly think no cheating is happening.

Responses
    ChezSoi July 9, 2020 5:08 pm

    Think of it this way: while Ray is out, Sooha is unconscious as if he were asleep. Now imagine someone having their way with you while you're asleep. I think it's this kind of reasoning.

    DaniekaHerrin July 9, 2020 5:59 pm

    Let me give you some insight. Just because they are the same system does not make them the same person. Each alter is essentially their own person with their own relationships, they don’t share like that unless discussed and agreed upon prior. Coming from someone who has a friend with DID.

    Peridot July 10, 2020 12:48 am
    Let me give you some insight. Just because they are the same system does not make them the same person. Each alter is essentially their own person with their own relationships, they don’t share like that unle... DaniekaHerrin

    Yes, I hope you understand by person I mean the physical body. They are different personality. That's Sooha's body, but Ray is another personality and Alter. I have no friend with DID, but I have researched about it because it's very interesting.

    Peridot July 10, 2020 1:00 am

    Yes, I hope you understand by person I mean the physical body. Yes. They are totally different personality. That's Sooha's body, but Ray is another personality and Alter. I have no friend with DID, but I have researched about it because it's very interesting.I have not further emphasized that yes, Ray should be recognized as different from Sooha. It is very important to acknowledge the existence of an Alter and is not the same with the host. That would be rude and sad.

    froaky July 10, 2020 1:22 am

    this !!!!! i feel like a lot of people in the comments don’t understand did. i don’t blame them but yeah some of the comments are pretty fucked up saying sooha should disappear and ray should be the main personality...

    minjchoi July 10, 2020 4:27 am
    this !!!!! i feel like a lot of people in the comments don’t understand did. i don’t blame them but yeah some of the comments are pretty fucked up saying sooha should disappear and ray should be the main pe... froaky

    Yeah that makes me sad :( I like Ray too, but one comment said Sooha should disappear just "never wake up" and let Ray have the happily ever after... kinda fucked up, like oh hey Sooha go die so Ray can be happy. -_-