I’m pretty sure most author finds it kinky to have antagonists rape/sexually harass the MC.
And also the ukes always being :
*oh this guy tried to rape me but he is still a good person so ill stay his friend*
*this guy that is me for weeks is asking to meet in private, ill go and gets answers*
*OMG he just touched my dick... i lost all my strenght... cant fight back*
*I’m using all my strenght to stop him but i cant.... and i cant help feeling good* (how can you feel good from sex when you are supposedly trying your hardest to get away... especially when you got hit and your ass is being pounded like crazy.... are you immune to physical pain dude?)
*oh i cant refuse a drink from these people*(even though you get, somehow, insanely drunk after 1 drink)

When your ex has been a creep but you still prefer to get answers from him than just ask your boyfriend. I hope the author gives back some brain cells to the uke.
Atleast we didn’t get the sexual assault cliché but this is a bit annoying too.