i don't like where that's going. i hope the author don't change the essence of the story l...

I think the seme is just trying to change the harmful sides of yuki’s masochism like getting in fights and such. It looks like he has actually fallen for yuki and not just his face and yuki seems to have fallen in love with the seme as well (〜￣△￣)〜

Ah yea. Because beaten the shit out of you to nearly death, which makes your beautiful Mother and Lover cry and sad, sure is cool and sexy.

But it's not like the essence of this manga is violence in the first place, right? In fact the author portrays lots of times that getting pleasure from fights and getting beaten up is not good. Perhaps by the end of this manga Ryouji will compromise by doing safe bdsm play or spanking who knows. Even if they won't get to do that, Yuki can still have sex without violence, just like most of the sex scenes so far :q

if hesin love he should accept how he is. he doesn't want the guy to go around fighting? just punch him instead.

violence is different from a sexual fetish. he likes being hitting as a sexual thing. that's not a bad thing. he don't have it with his partner, of course he look for it somewhere else. i wish he could find a partner that could give it to him instead of shaming him. his fetish inside a safe relationship would be good for him.

it's not about violence. it is a thing he likes and he's not getting it because his partner keeps shaming him. so he has to change because of a dude? he has to change what he likes and how he sees things? it's easier to him to find someone that will respect his wishes and share the same interest. there's no point being in a relationship that won't satisfy you, that you are the only one satisfying your partner. it should be mutual.

The problem is that with the fighting he’s doing now isn’t in a safe environment and has the people around him be concerned for him. I think it’s good that the seme is showing yuki that he can get pleasure from controlled masochistic sex (“like the urethra play they did before). They obviously like each other at this point so you probably shouldn’t get your hopes up of yuki ending up with someone else...