it really is tho. seems like people who enjoy this are either too young to realize how dangerous and emotionally draining an obsessive partner really is, or they just don’t care and are lost in their fantasies. it makes me hella uncomfortable when it comes to those scenes where the seme is clingy asf and doesn’t give the uke any space.
Some of them didn't even know the difference between possessive and obsessive..possessive might look attractive..but not obsession..wait until they stalk you..masturbate in front of your house etc..i used to dated obsessive guy and it's hell..being clingy is fine but obsessive people never take their partner feelings in consideration..the most important one is them not their partner..like wtf (sorry for my english)
Listen kids..obsession might look adorable and attractive..but believe me..it's hell in real life..so run