I don’t understand

Azusa July 20, 2020 4:12 pm

Since I just came from Sincerely I Became a Duke's Maid:
Where is ya consent hmmmm???
Arghhhh how am I supposed to understand y’alls morals when a whiny drunk pushing his way into his love's room is not ok (even though the mutual feelings are clear and in the open) but a duke kissing his wife in her sleep (when the marriage was arranged and there has been no confirmation of feelings yet) is ok????? Σ(っ°Д °;)っ

Responses
    FujoshiQueen July 20, 2020 4:20 pm

    I just came there also but I have no problems with it whatsoever...

    LaMarquise July 20, 2020 4:38 pm
    I just came there also but I have no problems with it whatsoever... FujoshiQueen

    Me too...What's wrong with a man kissing his wife..I'm sure SHE wouldn't mind. People have become overly sensitive and netpick at the most annoying details...I swear, at this rate, spontaneity is gonna be killed by society.

    laikhatakowowowowowow July 20, 2020 4:38 pm

    hmmm, funny you mention 'sincerely, I became the duke's maid' cause I've also just finished reading it and came straight here but have no problem??? lol they're already married and sure, no confessions have been made yet but it's like clear he's not trying to take advantage of her??? lmao why you being salty ╮( ̄▽ ̄'')╭

    Moth July 20, 2020 4:42 pm
    Me too...What's wrong with a man kissing his wife..I'm sure SHE wouldn't mind. People have become overly sensitive and netpick at the most annoying details...I swear, at this rate, spontaneity is gonna be kille... LaMarquise

    I wouldn’t say that. I think it is more the question of boundaries. If my s/o did that I 100% would mind, but if you set boundaries with your s/o about what is and isn’t okay than unconscious smooches would be okay.

    LaMarquise July 20, 2020 4:50 pm
    I wouldn’t say that. I think it is more the question of boundaries. If my s/o did that I 100% would mind, but if you set boundaries with your s/o about what is and isn’t okay than unconscious smooches would... Moth

    Well I DO understand some people wanting to have boundaries...I guess it's a personality thing..I, for one, wouldn't mind at all. There's a reason a spouse is called your "other half", if you trust them with your heart and mind, then your body and safety should follow. Just like you'll expect to be trusted back. Anyway, it's just my opinion. Like I said, I think it's a matter of personnality. But this kind of nitpicking makes people nervous and afraid of being labeled a perv, an abuser or worse (a rapist)..Of course no sane person wants to give that kind of impression, therefore, people will naturally start being on eggshells around their s/o too and be unable to act spontaneously, which, for me, is one of the worst things that can happen between lovers.

    Azusa July 20, 2020 5:25 pm

    Big oof. I’m not salty bc of the kiss at all ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ I also didn’t mind drunk Ale trying to cuddle and love Ibee.
    I was annoyed at the note at the end of Sincerely... and at the people in the comments reminding everyone that consent is oh so important when there was like nothing even going on???
    For me it just ruins the moment when you’ve read a super cute chapter and then there’s people in the comments trash talking.
    But since it happens so often, I’ve kinda gotten used to that. But I’m so confused?? It always feels like my perception of consent or rather, what needs consent is wrong and seemingly everything needs consent now??? But then again there’s stuff everyone else is ok with?? I don’t understand?????
    Yes, Alphonse kissing his wife was super cute.
    But Ale trying to kiss Ibee and wanting to be with her was cute too. (/TДT)/

    laikhatakowowowowowow July 20, 2020 11:04 pm
    Big oof. I’m not salty bc of the kiss at all ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ I also didn’t mind drunk Ale trying to cuddle and love Ibee. I was annoyed at the note at the end of Sincerely... and at the people in the com... Azusa

    hmmmmm i kinda understand what you're saying now?so like, i also think that ale trying to kiss ibee is super cute tho I'm saying that you SOUNDED salty in your comment. relax, maybe take a breather or two. i know, people can be unfair with judgments sometimes~
    (〜 ̄3 ̄)〜 humans are weird sometimes lol