The Age Gap

Well they didn't di anything when she was underage. They only progress into something when she was in uni. So, not much harm there lol

Well they didn't do anything when she was underage. They only progress into something when she was in uni. So, not much harm there lol

Still it's the principle. He's twice her age. He literally looks at her as a child in the beginning of the comic from what little I have read. How can you go from looking at someone as a child while you help care for them to viewing them romantically and sexually? There was even the mommy and baby monkey thing.

Keep disliking me y'all. Wonder how you'd respond if a younger sibling or future kid met a man who was twice their age while they were still a child who the end up romantically and sexually with in a couple of years. How do y'all feel about the baby groupies? About 12-17 girls sleeping with grown ass rock stars because they idolized them and wanted to live their lives. Is that okay since they have passionate feelings for rock star(s) and intense relationships with them?

Also it is highly unrealistic to depict such a huge age gap relationship like this. Theres always a power imbalance putting the older adult person in a position above the younger one and often manipulates them. This story is a fucking joke and y'all are too who support it. I'm all for legal age gaps that aren't severely huge, but if it's like older than 12 years and the younger party is a minor or even up until 23-24 in the largest age gap instances, it feels highly wrong as that power imbalance is there considering the younger would be relying highly on the older as the older would be completely established in life with most likely a steady career, income, housing, and such.

Listen IDC how much you love the characters or other aspects of the story's premise--you cannot take away the fact that it's all morally wrong because of the goddamn age gap. So keep disliking me while there's minors all across the globe having their trust manipulated by older people looking to solicit them for sex or emotional energy. So keep disliking me while knowing that this story is probably highly triggering to people who have faced sexual assault and harassment as minor by someone who was way older than them
Keep doing it y'all. Keep tryna defend it by saying she grows a couple years older before they do things, still doesn't change the fact that he viewed her as a child and kept taking care of her while she was one.

Sis, that just don't add up. You saying that it's immoral just because he's twice her age... You just offended a loooot of couples.

Then you say, "think about children who are exploited by idols."
This dude isn't an idol plus is actually disliked by most people, and this girl, when they started dating wasn't even a CHILD.

I'm against what you said PRIMARILY because my parents have a large age gap.
They have absolutely NO problems and have been together for 30 years now. I have an aunt and uncle who have a 16 year age gap and met when my aunt was 18.
They are perfectly fine and have been married for 23 years. They waited to marry when my aunt was 24 and they have no problems at all.

So just because you find it gross, I don't think you have a right to spit on other relationships similar to this Irl. But OBVIOUSLY if the person is STILL a child and the older partner didn't ask for consent when and ONLY when the child becomes an adult I would not condone the people involved to be in a relationship as that's just wrong.

You can't just call someone disgusting even though they waited for that child to not only become an adult, but to give their concent as an ADULT with their OWN mind and goals.

Thank you sir. PERIOD. <(︶︿︶)>

I should mention that of the people you offended I am one of them due to personal experience with couples with a large age gap. Also talking about trauma of adults trying to sexually assault minors. Hello? You called? And Sir, I'm fine. （￣へ￣）

I'm saying it's immoral and dead wrong because he's twice her and age AND met her as a minor and viewed her as a literal child who he took a parental/caretaker role over. If they met later in life and he didn't know her as a minor prior, that'd be a different story.

Yes Ik he's not a goddamn idol or rock star but does that mean you excuse the relationship baby groupies had with rock stars simply because the baby groupies were infatuated with them just like you do with the MC ends up with the ML after she infatuated over him for years? Neither is okay and it doesn't matter whether or not he was liked by people because that's not the point.

I said very large age gaps are innappropriate when the younger person is less than 23 and still very unestablished in life which will play into a relationship power imbalance often times (mainly monetary and career wise). People at 23 might've just graduated with a bachelor's degree. They're still very young adults.

Take offense I don't care really. You're missing the points of what I'm saying so not my problem.

Dude. Offenese taken. Not really. I realise, you didn't put all that trauma crap after I told your that I was fine.

Perhaps you've had trauma or such similar or worse than mine. Still doesn't give you the right to spit on other, LEGAL AND perfectly moral marriages which believe in consent.

I said it before and I'll say it again. You seem to find it strange that an adult could fall in love with a teenager right? Yeah, that's wrong but fine if they don't act on it and try to find someone else in the time being at least. And a teen falling in love with an adult? Well that's normal right? Did the adult accept the child's feelings? THAT is also wrong.If they accepted ofc.

HOWEVER, DID THE ADULT WAIT AFTER THE CHILD WAS AN ADULT AND OLD ENOUGH TO COMPREHEND WHAT'S RIGHT OR WRONG?

Well.. I don't see your problem Sir??? Is the ship sinking? And honestly I don't think I've said anything offensive to you but I hope you take some too.

I was offended till you said you didn't care. Made me laugh really. If you REALLY didn't care you wouldn't have taken your time to respond sis. And that's a fact.

Also with the power imbalance thing... Take a look at the world child. There's no just two sides to a coin. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

Aight, I've said my bit and I'm done. I don't plan on responding anymore since there are people like you everywhere. But I'm only leaving since I know that there are many people, like me so... ╮(￣▽￣)╭ Good luck on hating everything and trying to prove your point in really round about ways. If you're gonna use an example, use a good and relevant one. Exhibit A, my first comment to you. Had perfect examples so learn that if anything at all. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~