So...the MC is willing to sacrifice himself for the little guy, but he cant even tell him ...

Do u think the other guy will believe suha when his impression is that those two nut jobs are nice? Idts.

Well if they arent even close enough for the coworker to trust Suha, then why even protect the coworker the begin with.

IKR? Σ(っ°Д °;)っ if he is not going to be honest about those assholes, why bother to protect this guy?

"why bother to protect this guy" so if u knew someone that potentially could get raped or be abused you'd just stay idle and do nothing??
he knows how that red haired asshole works, he knows how shitty of a person he is + that other guy idc about their names.
also,, ur forgetting that the red hair has a lot of power and can easily just get rid of the rumors if suha was to tell the other secretary. power is definitely at play.
obvsly i want suha and the other guy to be safe and for the secretary to know just how shitty his boss actually is BUT suha had a very traumatic experience (from getting forced to give a bj aka rape and his past with them both) and sometimes people who go through that abuse cant just easily talk about it.

okay look at it this way, if you know the person is with a crazy people that can rape him at any moment. yeas ANY moment and yet he does not WARN him from the danger he is in or let him know anything about it.
so what he did is mostly pointless, he can get abuse and get rape at other times he does not know about, so what he did for him was in the end of the day pointless if he is not going to be honest and warn his friend from it. then let the friend decide what he wants to do with it, if the friend decide to stay with a fuck up crazy dude and ignore his warning then it is his fault.
he is a grown-up man, not a baby! he has logic to protect himself, he DOES NOT need protection like a child. Suha been an idiot here and hypocrite cause it make him feel good to think he will save other people instead of treating him like a grown-up adult and be honest with him with the danger.
if Suha has such a big traumatic experience, then more reason for him to warn and be honest with the other about his boss.

If i knew someone was about to get raped , I would risk my own safety ONLY if that person is close enough to me. But if the dude wouldn't even trust me if i told him that x person is a dangerous abuser. How come are they close enough for Suha to sacrifice himself?

Also its nothing about rumors. Its just giving a warnimg to one person.

For example, if my best friend is going out with a man that abused me before, i could tell her that this guy is an abuser and that i heard it from a trustworthy person. (I dont have to say its me)

In this situation, he could just tell his friend that he knows that these guys picks up drunk.men to their house for xxx stuff so he better take care of himself around them.

If the guy still go carefree after that, its his problem for being so stupid. (Why even get drunk with coworkers, that is quite a bad idea, especially if there are higher ups)

No I'm not saying he doesn't trust suha. He looks up to him like a hyung though they haven't known each other long...but he has been red's secretary for a while so his positive impression of that guy is pretty deeply embedded, he wouldn't be suspicious of suha or his motives for telling him to be cautious but he would likely dismiss the warning. Or worse he could tell red what suha said in passing or ask him about his relationship with suha....that would open a whole new bag of worms. Then there is the question of does red treat everyone like he treated suha? Maybe the cinroll secretary isn't his type.
Either way, suha went to fetch him with good intentions but idt suha is in a position politically to go out on a limb and warn that kid.

You are actually considering the option of the secretary telling red head if Suha gave him.a warnimg.

If that is a reason not to tell the secretary, then thats also a big proof that their relationship isn't good enough for Suha to save him.

It is true that Suha was gonna ignore the text at first but then he went to fetch the kid. Suha was cautious about red but he didn't bring backup bc he didn't think red would abuse him....he was surprised to see the sadist seme there too though. Up to that point Suha didn't think he'd be sacrificing himself for anyone. So on Suha's end, he cared just enuf for the kid to get him out of there even tho they were not THAT close.
My second comment wasn't focusing on how Suha felt about the kid tho...it was focused on how he thought the kid would take the info if he did warn him. It is not that the kid would mistrust Suha it's just that he prob would not take such a warning to heart.
Idt the kid would maliciously tell red about the warning if he got one but he might let it slip jokingly or whatnot.
So I ask again...Do u think the young secretary would believe suha when his impression is that those two nut jobs are nice? Or should I rephrase and ask, how close do you think the young secretary feels towards Suha?

If you really think the secretary would let it slip, then they arent close at all. Thats pretty obvious.

Also, unless my memory is wrong the message red head sent toSuha seemed like it was a trap and Suha should have known it was dangerous. Though it seems he just assumed it waa safe for

For some reason

And even if a random person told you one of your male coworker is a dangerous abusive dude. Even if you thought he was very nice and all, but not close to him. The natural behavior is you would take caution around him. And you wouldnt let it slip.

Now if you were close to him, thats another story, but even if you dont know if its true, most people would not want to take the.risk.and just be cautious in case.

That works in theory but not always in practice.Like this:
I've told a friend to watch out for this guy or that guy bc I'm a better judge of character and she's more easy going. She trusts me and my advice but she still makes her own choices.
Let's say she makes it work with one of these guys I warned her about and she wants to introduce him to friends...she might give him a heads up about what I said so he can make an effort at making a goid impression. (Sorry this is the closest scenario I could make up).
We all know suha lives in a culture that does not approve of homosexuals right? Given that Suha would not want to admit he had a sexual relationship with red or the other jerk--whether consensual or rape he would not likely spill all the tea...he'd have to give a more vague, round about word of caution and again, that type of advice is easily dismissed.

Suha does not have to admit he is homosexual to warn someone ╮(￣▽￣)╭ he can warn him in 100 different ways and it will be enough without giving any details about his personal life.
he just needs to warn him his boss is a crazy son of bitch that abuse person and rape them, that's it. how he knows it does not matter to the friend of his, what the friend will do with this info is totally up to him and yet Suha that "save" him and play the hero didn't warn him at all ╮(￣▽￣)╭ which make all his actions have hypocrite idiot that jump into his ex arms if only giving the excuse to do it. which I really dislike about him.

My close friends, who i would put myself in danger to save. If i warn them.about someone, i would not even considser they would tell it to the other person. If that was a possibility, we wouldnt be close friends and i wouldnt take a risk.for them.

So we are going back to the first case. Why did he even go into a dangerous situation for someone that is really not important :/ . Well i guess all ukes have this tendency to always ignore danger and thinks everything is safe