sigh

loveagain August 2, 2020 7:03 pm

hyesung being a full grown adult scared of some college students judging him for being married and having a child just doesn't sit right with me

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    Psychnerd August 2, 2020 7:07 pm

    Forreal. I'm a college student and in group sessions, my classmates will show me pics of their kids and husband/wife and I'm like I wish that could be me!!

    Psychnerd August 2, 2020 7:08 pm
    Forreal. I'm a college student and in group sessions, my classmates will show me pics of their kids and husband/wife and I'm like I wish that could be me!! Psychnerd

    If anything I'm more proud of them work, taking care of their kids, and going to school. I can barely handle school and work.

    Wazzuppppp August 2, 2020 7:12 pm

    Yeah understandable, but with my college experience, most people in their 20s, married and with kids get judged alot in my college, only because he is an adult doesn't mean he can't be scared of some college students as some adults can be intimidated by younger adults or teens

    Aniwulina August 2, 2020 7:14 pm

    That's because in most Asian countries you shouldn't admit to those kind of things in places like school or work (because you could get ridiculed or lose work, schoolarship, etc.). It's a very different mindset.

    Spamalot August 2, 2020 7:28 pm

    I agree with @Aniwulina - unfortunately, the setting is in Asia and they do judge you more than Western countries. I had a friend who's a dual citizen and when she got pregnant in college, she and her new hubbie were sent off here in US to finish college.

    gris August 2, 2020 8:34 pm

    He’s only 21, at that age most college students aren’t married or have kids. It’s understandable that he feels the way he does.