I mean... He was never ready to get mated/married much less be a parent to begin with and was practically dragged into the life, so it's all not surprising, tbh. He's literally learning everything along the way. At least we're seeing some character development, and that's the most important.
Honestly that excuse expired a looooong time ago when he decided to get married with his husband, the seme made a huge mistake, seriously huge, but if he didn’t felt like he could be with his “abuser” why did he went back to him? He didn’t need to get married in order to milk the seme’s money, he is really just a terrible person and I’m really tired of defending him
Exactly, he wasn’t forced to get married and be with the seme, at this point I just want the seme to leave for a year in order to get away from him, it’s a shame they have the baby and he needs 2 present parents
? I'm not defending him though? He does have a wack personality, never denied that and has been clear throughout the story. But you also can't expect a person to change so quickly, especially when it comes to big ass responsibilities. His wacko personality also dwindled down this time around. I don't see him screaming his shit out daily like before and is actually taking responsibility of Byul. His past is not an excuse, but merely a fact. Also, they're bonded, and it's been stated in the story that separating can potentially be fatal, so leaving isn't exactly the wisest decision here. This is no more but a manhwa so we can't expect much realism, but realistically speaking as well, humans are simply more complex than that. I stand by my words, at least there's some character development.
Studying In a bad place and feeling Trapped in it is a very awful feeling, very bad, and I do understand the stigma over studying while having children, it’s the whole:
“was she playing around when she was young?” “She should’ve just go to work” “will she even be able to study and do her part of the work while having a kid” “I don’t wanna hang out with a mom, all they do is talk about kids” there are many things that target you mental health.
That being said, I’m also tired of hyesun ALWAYS doing some stupid shit that would’ve eventually hurt the seme, he is a very difficult person and that’s annoying