Having your toys seen is not a big deal.
It actually is to most people. It may not be a big deal to you but to others it is.
I see, I won't show it off since I don't believe in exposing kinks to outsiders but if they get seen due to people being nosy and overstepping my boundaries so be it.
It not always about people being nosy. You could have left it out by accident when let’s say as an example you invited someone over and forgotten you had it out and they saw it. You may not mind it but it really depends on who see it since a lot of people like to run their mouths and talk about other business. I personally don’t care if people see it but it would annoy me to no end if people constantly talk about it as if it’s unnatural to have. Since most people are gossipers. Sorry for making you read this long paragraph lol
I can totally understand that. I never leave my toys out since I clean them and store them after every use. Only people I invite over are my gaming squad and best friend and I doubt they will gossip about it if anything they'd probably want to know where to buy them. I already learned from my job that the gossip about me from non-entity's doesn't bother me but I can see how it could be annoying though.
That good then lol, i feel like people who have anxiety or cares too much about what other thinks are usually the one who would be embarrassed if someone was to find their toys.
LMAOO i was talking ab minho
the second hand embarrassment i got-