Not really, why would you care about what others think of you? At the end of the day it's YOUR life and YOU decide who you are. You should not force yourself to change just because of others. This makes me feel genuinely sorry for all the people that have this kind of mindset just to fit into our judgmental society.
No actually they're right. It's easy to say "oh just live without caring what others think" but in reality, you are always going to have that feeling of being judged. Some people just have a thicker wall to block it out, however you can't just expect everyone to automatically switch to that mindset. Some people are just natural cautious due to past trauma, experiences or the environment they grew up in. It's fucking difficult to build that wall up, and not everyone can deal with that amount of pressure
Oh, of course I'm aware of all of those things you mentioned that's why I feel sorry for them, and I'm not expecting anyone to just switch like that, it's very hard i know, I myself had (still kinda have) that mindset of trying to change for others, maybe the way I expressed myself wasn't the best, but I just wanted to remind some people that mostly it's them who are in control of their lives and should not forget about it.
“Live your life without worrying about what other people think”
Easier said than done