what's frustrating to me is that some of you think it's appropriate to discuss private intimate matters with strangers, even worse with people from work. are yall like 15??
If you are blatantly getting hit on then I think that saying one is in a relationship is appropriate. You don't have to say who, what or why.
saying "i have a lover" to someone who is hitting on you is not the same as telling someone details about your sex life or something.... "private intimate matters"... its a relationship status dfjgdsf ppl display that shit on facebook lmao
He shouldn’t have to say SHIT to a fucking intern. They didn’t meet up on a fucking date, he agreed to meet yanagi to chat about work. What world do you live in that you both feel it’s ok to ask personal questions to coworkers you barely know, and on top of that are above you in rank? Stop being so freaking dumb, seriously
I am free to give my opinion, and neither opinion is wrong, but you shouldn't say to people that they are dumb just because they have a different opinion than yours. Yanagi point blank asked him of he was in a relationship, and he had an ambiguous reply.
As you said, he doesn't have to say shit to the intern, but he could've have given him a more concrete answer, than I have a kid that I want to concentrate on.
And based on my personal experience, if the guy is decent, if you are clear cut enough with your answer regarding your relationship status or your stance with relationships, they would leave you well enough alone.
lmao not all opinions are made equally. just because someone loves h*tler and thinks he did great things for Germany for example doesn’t make that person right - at all. AGAIN - so your one brain cell can finally comprehend. Yanagi is an INTERN, not a friend, not a grinder date. Naruse doesn’t owe him shit - I fact, it was already super generous of him to give yanagi time and hear him out regarding career stuff. ALSO seems like you’re hella young or just lack empathy, but kids mean a lot to parents, sometimes even more than friends and/or partners. Naruse saying that his child is his ultimate priority and is not wanting to get involved in anything outside of work is ONE-HUNDRED percent legitimate.
Well thanks for comparing me to a Nazi?? No need to call people names, and I am trying to be respectful of your opinion. So I would also expect that you respect mine.
By all means I am not undermining that he wants to concentrate on his child but he shouldn't use that as a reason either. He could have just said no thanks and period. And I know a lot of people who are in a relationship with other people that have kids. Divorced or not married or had thier kids young. Its really not a deterent on having relationships, so maybe thats why for me its really that much big of a deal if a person have kids or not if they want a relationship.
And about the talk about the career thing, I would never go to a bar alone with a guy to talk about my career, its either a cafeteria or a cafe. Personal opinion, I dont drink alcohol when trying to ask my superior about what should I do next or how can I go about somethings, after all I dont want to be drunk when asking for feedback on my work. But the culture is different so I dont know.
And as for him not meeting the guy at grinder or whatever, he was already getting hit on and asked if he was in a relationship. Most sexual assault cases are from the people that know the victim because of access and feeling of familiarity. I would have been more cautious especially since Asumi already repeatedly asked him to be careful.
lol "I would never go to a bar alone with a guy to talk about my career, its either a cafeteria or a cafe" how old are you?? you sound so naive. people meet up in pubs all the time, doesn't mean you're gonna get fucking drunk and raped by a predator, the fuck is wrong with you? you can always order a seltzer with something small to eat.
also "respecting" your opinion doesn't mean I agree with it. Your opinion is rife with fallacies and sounds incredibly ignorant. It's obvious you have no idea what motivates naruse as a character and are looking at this whole situation through the eyes of a young teen that feeds off BL and yaois on this site. so of course you are not going to understand why his child is more important to him than anything else in his life, INCLUDING his current lover. he'd drop asumi in a heartbeat if being with him hurt his child in any way. that's the kind of character he is. and let me remind you that this is a grown ass man. asumi has NO idea what yanagi's personality is like, so him asking naruse to be careful is not because he knows but bc he's being petty and jealous. he realizes how he forced himself on naruse in beginning and is worried someone will do the same thing. he needs to trust his partner or fuck off with someone else he can control easier.
I think Naruse should just say he is in a relationship... he is frustrating me...