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Yes, they're in a world where "anyone can get pregnant" (it's mentioned in the Omegaverse Guide that shows up in the beginning of some chapters). That's why the grandpa made the comment that he thought about Hiromu getting with Matsuo. Basically Alphas are the "elite" and many have an old-school/ superiority mindset where they feel that Alphas should only be with Alphas, to ensure that their kids also come out as Alphas.
I just realized the twins and tomohiro(?) has alpha-omega parents.