I totally get your point, but being mentally abused should not be an excuse for the actions he has done. He’s stalked her, almost raped her, and has mentally scarred her all while knowing she had a phobia against men. Being in her position, id rather want to get away asap due to fear, from both the phobia and the trauma yul has caused. Of course, he’s dealing with issues, but it generally shouldnt be justified at all. Being mentally ill should never be a good reason to hurt someone else.
Yes I do also get what your point is and I think you are right. I just have a weak spot for twisted abused characters and i just don’t know who would love them if I don’t. I mean that doesn’t sound right but It’s just I felt sad for Yul too even tho he is the one at fault and has to take responsibility for what he has done to our poor Sian and Yujin. I mean I just wish I could have been the one helping out to Yul to make him realize what he has done wrong for so long.
I soo much want to help Yul! I think I would have stayed with Yul if I were in Sian’s position... idk I just think I’d help him in anyway I can because I believe not even Sian had as much pain as Yul lived over the years. I mean Yul was being abused mentally and physically and for several times he even was nearly raped or harassed by guys before meeting Sian in school and well when those type of things happens to young boys their psychology turns 365* and it ruins them even more then girls cause girls are mentally more stronger then guys in that sense and manage to recover a bit better. ( but ofc i just hope those stuffs never happens to neither ) and well if I were Sian I would have at least try to hold my bad past with yul for a moment and stop struggling and mature up to help him to at least move on from his obsession towards me and if not I would call help for him and be with him while he gets the help he needed.