Yes, i agree with you wholeheartedly! I'm so glad i'm not alone. I liked this manga but i just had to skip their scenes because it's so toxic and wrong
totally, it really bothers me how okjae is literally using areum for sex, areum needs someone that treat him better
i agree so much. at 1st i thought i was the only one who felt this way since there was no comments abt them but im glad to see more
My only disagreement with this comment is that imo, Areum isn't sexist (hence his confusion whenever another calls him out on his sexist humour). He's just stupid af, lol, and seems to lack a little bit in the social department. Which does make sense if you look at the (very) brief flash back to his past.
Okjae and Areum's relationship is so dang toxic. I feel awful for Areum because he's clearly just being used for Okjae's fantasies, but at the same time he knows she doesn't want a relationship with him besides physical. Okjae needs therapy and Areum needs to find a better partner. She acts like a dirty old man with him who's only after his and it's all "haha, funny," because she's a young woman. But I find it abhorrent and gross.
She forces him to do so many things that he doesn't want to do, SO many things. Her friends like Areum us the bad partner, and I get it, they are Okjae's friends, not his. He may not be ideal for marriage. But Okjae is waaaay worse. She never asks for consent and ignores his boundaries.
By this point, I'm only reading this webtoon for the main couple. I was so excited to see someone with my kink (i.e: crossdressing guys) but was utterly disappointed by the Okjae in the end.
That's it, my rant is over lol.