if this is really bdsm i don't want it anymore

I meant to upvote dammit

This isn't BDSM it is sexual assault and rape. What annoys me about the portrayal of BDSM in fiction is BDSM is more consensual than vanilla sex nothing happens without informed consent.

Ohhhhhhh honey no. No no no. This IS NOT bdsm. Not even sort of or remotely. Go read, uh, let’s see...The Sensual M. That’s much, much, MUCH better than this shit.