I don't get it, they're idols but first of all they are people and should be able do live their lives. Ehh, I stan a group in their 30s (some members are closer to 40 than 30) and they are still restricted, which is just absurd (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
Ikr. Its toxic as hell. Saessangs are no joke. Before all international fans were supportive of idols having some personal space and respecting their privacy. But nowadays a lot of them act the same way. They don't like it if they start dating and they harass them on SM. I am really tired of this toxicity. They make music, they are not our toys.
It's because the fandom has toxic sides and the media sure knows how to feed off it
I don't know how kpop idols live their lives but the environment they live in is so suffocating like the reporters waiting for any little thing to happen so that they call it a scandal and the fans shit talk their idols as soon as they spot them with a girl or they're involved in a dating scandal.. I mean wtf why is them dating a *scandal*