Responses
Yes! Thank you for your addition of the uke's self sabatoge and futher explanation! It takes two people to work a relationship and I think the mentality that some bl readers have that the main 'uke is bebe' because they are smaller is very bad because thats not how actual relationships work. Anyone can be toxic regardless of their physical appearance. Obviously the uke here is more or so blaming himself, which is only toxic to himself.
I know some of you think the top is toxic but honestly I think he is alright so far. He knows and outlines his boundaries.Is pretty keen on Consent/aftetcare.
Just because someone has a bad past/certain preferences and is not commital, doesnt mean they are toxic.But I do see an emotional rollercoaster coming soon and he might make mistakes. Though I hope those mistakes aren't roo horrible.