Well you shouldn't. BDSM has a lot of sides and I think everyone who is interested in it can find what they like and enjoy the most. Some like to use or be called such words as slut and etc and some don't. And that's okay! I think people kinda forget that BDSM has much more than just tying someone and using ,,bad,, words.
BDSM has many different parts and aspects to it. you don't have to get straight to the bondage and kinky stuff. if anything the most important thing about beds is trusting your partner and having a good relationship.
Isn't it about setting rules and boundries then?
I would not want to be treated as an animal all the frickin time.. But if it was just a play we did sometimes then sure..
It's all about figuring out what you like, what you want to try and what doesn't get u going haha
BDSM in yaoi makes me scared of trying it. It is embarrassing when someone keeps referring to you as an animal. And even calling you a slut. I am like pride and ego shattered. Self respect gone down the drain. I feel second hand embarrassment for the subs and bottoms too.