
About the age gap I don't remember that much, so I'm sorry. But here are the raws.
https://m.manhuagui.com/comic/30251/

Yeah sometimes the normal age guy is much better suited for the protagonist but the authors don't seem to bother give them a chance against older men (which is a little messed up)
I only remember one manga that the author had our FL end up with the boy her age and it made me really happy .. it's a cute story about country pumpkin going to a school in city and stuff but I don't remember the name

femboys over uncles
I mean, he is a uncle, plus he's old. If it was gonna be a older man I wished he actually looked older. cuz I don't mind age gap, this just wasn't a good story to have the male lead with a age gap. Like femboy blush face has maturity despite being babied. Speaking of being babied, if it was gonna have an age gap let it be imaginary like the relationship between childhood friend and female lead. uncle is a character without character lol, he doesn't do much when the childhood friend is actually doing things.

Nah hot uncles over useless femboys. Lol the age gap romance itself the whole point of the story and the most essential part of it. Most girls and women are attracted to older men/boys and not younger boys. Also disagree the childhood friend is pretty useless and bland with no flaw or character outside of blushing 24/7 (I swear to god can this trope die already) while the uncle is interesting and fighting his feelings.
I ship her w childhood friend, but as we all know she's gonna end up with older guy. I don't have any problem w it, it's just their age gap creeps me out, if she was adult, maybe I would haven't mind, but she's minor, man. She's damn minor. Ughhh.