fr tho like you dont ask when have you been straight to a person who just started dating like wtf
Not to be disrespectful, but they probably asks that because the person had dated only girls and now they dates a boy without coming out as a BI. Or the person never came out of the closet or it’s their first time dating their same gender when they were dating their different gender before. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
Correction *opposite gender*
ay bro no hate to you but u might wanna change your name, people will come for your ass
I don't think they mean any harm w it. (at least not the characters in this yaoi here) It's more about quenching their curiosity. I'd really count that as questions most would ask when someone enters a relationship. Humans are born with curiosity and I think it's just something u'd want to know. Me for example was the same when a friend told me they were gay. I was just like ' oh really? Like did u always date the same gender or also the opposite? Or how is it now? Or who are u w now?' It's not meant to offend someone but naturally u'd want to know more about something ur not familiar with and I think it's a great thing if u can just talk about it because like that I for example got a small insight into a topic I'm not familiar with and later on I could respond in more appropriate ways because I then already had that knowledge and all. Of course some questions u ask are sometimes not the best but as long as the person in front of u knows or u show them that u don't mean any harm by this I think there is nothing bad about that. How should people know about something they haven't experienced themselves before?
very much facts i agree that’s probably what they meant
LMAO YOUR USERNAME but yaaa you’re probably right
Thanks for yo help,
Lol thanks Sam.
IDK why I picked this username....
why does everyone in bl’s ask the main character “oh since when have you been gay” like ? you don’t just suddenly become gay you’re born with that bud