It's not like I normalize it. It's more like I hate it in real life but like when the main character rapes the other main character it's....like it's not a rape. Cuz I already know that after the rape they'll fall in love and be lovely dovely....so in yaoi it's more like a fuck than rape...And I hate that I've gotten so used to it...
I’m not saying you normalize it, a ton of other people do tho. also yeah I get that feeling, it’s honestly so shitty that authors keep going down the rape road because realistic the rapist would go to jail or the victim would have some sort of ptsd/mental illness afterwards ( not saying all people do but like you’ll probably get traumatized afterwards )

This is like...rape, right? But why don't I hate it? Is it because the seme is cute and bubbly? Something's off here hmmmmmmm