He said, “are you going to your boyfriend’s place” and he went, “no, to my place”. This doesn’t deny the fact that he has a boyfriend, just that he wasn’t going to his place.
Following the answer the person gave you above, in doing that, he said, “I knew it.” And it shocked Makoto because he didn’t even know what he’d just said. Truly a dick move
In chapter 1 it was made clear that he’s gay and that he wanted a relationship but he wasn’t out yet to anyone apart from himself. So in chapter where he was being asked why he was so happy and why he was avoiding the “friend”, the uke was being intentionally vague since he isn’t 1. out as gay to anyone 2. Didn’t want to disclose his relationship (Nor did he plan to) so when the guy asked him “are you going to your boyfriends house” he replied “no I’m going to mine” unintentionally revealing his sexuality and relationship only to find out his so called friend did this because he was upset he wasn’t the one dating him even though “he was there first”
Oh i see...but i feel bad for his friend cuz..well he did make a mistake but..i dont think it towards the point to not be forgiven. Well he did say that he like him but he didnt make a move bcuz he do not want to force him. So i think that his friend has some good values, n he probably made a mistake bcuz he was upset...so i think he deserve to be forgiven
Oh i see...but i feel bad for his friend cuz..well he did make a mistake but..i dont think it towards the point to not be forgiven. Well he did say that he like him but he didnt make a move bcuz he do not want to force him. So i think that his friend has some good values, n he probably made a mistake bcuz he was upset...so i think he deserve to be forgiven
It’s not a mistake, he did this very intentionally because he already had the assumption— he just wanted confirmation. He also almost outed the Uke to his whole class of it wasn’t for the seme eating his words. It’s not his place or right to announce someone’s sexuality before they do. It’s a massive violation of trust and just morally disgusting to do. Nobody should be forced out the closet before they decide to. The friend also showed that he knew that the Uke didn’t want to be out openly and still manipulated an answer just because he was angry. That’s super fucking shitty, especially from someone who was supposed to be a friend.
Coming out of the closet isn’t some tiny thing either. More often than not it’s a HUGE deal, even if that’s coming out to one person or 100. In the greater concepts of LGBTQ+ issues it can also be a matter of safety, anxiety and fear when and that’s made even worse when you remove someone choice of when they decide to come out or not.
No, it wasn’t a mistake. He does not deserve to be forgiven either.
First off, he shouldn’t have been upset in the first place. For what? That he didn’t tell him his sexuality? Well no one is obligated to tell someone their sexuality regardless if they were friends or not. Is it that he had a boyfriend? Well he didn’t need to tell him that either. So what if he liked him and didn’t want to force himself on him. He’s still not obligated to return his feelings back and it’s his loss if he sat on his ass trying to magically make him like him.
Also, there’re so much more risk at being outed without your consent. It removes you from whether or not you’re ready and comfortable with it being shared to other people. LGBTQ+ people can be targeted for rape, bullying, murder and so much more just for not being straight. Being outed just strips you naked, like, if you do it yourself you’re still stripping yourself naked but in a comfortable manner with the people you think won’t give a shit about you strutting around naked. Even if he was bisexual he shouldn’t have done that and his sexuality doesn’t get him an out of free card for outing people. Coming out is also a liberating moment and something you’ll remember forever and it was stolen by someone else when he wasn’t even ready for it. It was his moment, not theirs.
He deserves nothing. If someone tricked me out myself I too wouldn’t be friends with them anymore. I personally can forgive a slip of the tongue but trickery is an asshole move which is consciously made.
Oh okay
Idk why but i dont understand how he trick him...pls explain to me (づ￣ ³￣)づ