this whole refusing to drink alcohol and being considered rude thing STINKS

Especially since it's most likely the guy is autistic and no one seems to pick up on it.

I highly doubt that

I’m not a big fan of drinking as well. I don’t think it’s rude at all to decline if they don’t want to drink. Different cultures, I suppose. :( Wish it was normal to say no instead of being peer pressured into taking a shot.