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I already read it and I'm still asking the same question.

In my opinion, I think it's because the seme doesn't really care if he was exposed cause he is a lone wolf in the first place, but it is a different story for the uke, he is surrounded by people and actually has good boy image to keep, in conclusion both of them have different circumstances due to their different personalities.

But I do still think that you've got a point there