Communication problems

JayJayTak September 24, 2020 3:53 am

Him: He will use his kid to spend more time with you
Her: No, you're overthinking it. Why're you being childish. (gas lighting)
Him: He's interested in you.
Her: No he's not, I said he's not before. (How would you know about a stranger's intent towards you without discussion?)
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Her: I want us to reach a better understanding.
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Well maybe you can reach understanding if you said your feelings about Mr Cousin, ie. "I'm not interested in him, only in you".

But no, she said the most used lines when confronted about an attraction to a male friend, which usually ends up being true.

Responses
    Really Mbali September 30, 2020 2:10 pm

    I haven't read this in a while, but wow even without having to read the chapter I think this pretty much sums it up.