He confess to me!!

Shino ren March 17, 2015 7:39 am

Hi guys i need some advice well the story was like this my bestfriend ask me if i was free in suterday and i say yes and after that he go to my house to pick me up but i was showering that time so my mom said come to his room. Because his my bestfriend he look at my computer and founds out i was reading boyxboy after i finish bathing he ask me if i was gay and i say calmly that i'm not after that he didn't talk to me at school. I thought he was disgusted at me but at luch time he come and said he have something to tell a really important so after school we go at the nearly part and i ask him what is it and he look at me serous and he say "go out with me" i was so shock and said are you kidding me and he said "no, your no disgust with homo right so go out with me" i don't know what to do so i just run and go home god i'm gaaay or something my sister was the one who reccomend me to read yaoi and its fine by me beacouse it just fantasie so please guy give me some advice . (Just wanted you to know that this is my sister account she the one who tell me to ask ypur guys some advance).

Responses
    Shino ren March 17, 2015 12:28 pm
    I am a girl & thinking from your POV i also would have been surprised if my best friend confessed to me. The solution is pretty simple, tell your friend that you are sorry for causing a misunderstanding &am... whisper

    As her sister i was really suprise about it i give him same advice but i don't think thats enough so i tell him to ask this site about there opinion on what happend to him. Thanks on behalf of my brother

    Shino ren March 17, 2015 12:30 pm
    just go straight and say that ur not gay and u dont have any thing against gay people and that u enjoy reading stuff like that because it's funny @Anonymous

    That is straight foward answer but thanks on behalf of my brother.

    Shino ren March 17, 2015 12:33 pm
    Wow.... its like I'm reading a yaoi manga... so it also happens in real life..... rood

    Hahaha i know right even me his sister didn't imagine that it going to happen to my brother

    Shino ren March 17, 2015 12:34 pm
    OMG!! Your brother made my day! he really did a good job asking for help in this site.. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ For my advice to your brother , he needs to know his feelings first like what the others said.. BlazingShana21

    I'm happy it made your day, i know right thats what i said to him (⌒▽⌒)

    kira March 17, 2015 1:13 pm

    OMG! Are you in a manga? Hahaha

    BlazingShana21 March 17, 2015 1:23 pm
    I'm happy it made your day, i know right thats what i said to him (⌒▽⌒) Shino ren

    hope your brother would tell us what happen to them ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    Shino ren March 17, 2015 2:10 pm
    hope your brother would tell us what happen to them ლ(´ڡ`ლ) BlazingShana21

    Me to hope he tell me (⌒▽⌒)

    Shino ren March 17, 2015 2:11 pm
    OMG! Are you in a manga? Hahaha @kira

    Hahhha i know right haha

    BlazingShana21 March 17, 2015 2:47 pm
    Me to hope he tell me (⌒▽⌒) Shino ren

    HAHAHA You're a great sister !! you support your brother so much , you even let him use your account (˘◡˘)

    Loli-chan March 17, 2015 2:59 pm

    oh my god oh my god oh my god ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ .... ehm so .. I think all ppl here made good points so I will just say one thing dont break his heart do u know how much courage it took him to confess to you .. in the same time make sure its not some kind of prank he is playing to toy u ... dont forget to give us full details later .. good luck sweety <3

    I.ship.it March 17, 2015 7:45 pm

    o.m.g
    I'd ship it were this a shonen ai manga :P
    To bro: I see enough people answered already, so for now I'll just hope your story had a nice ending... for both you and your best friend. Let us know if it was so. You're lucky to have such a supporting sister.
    To sister: You have the best brother. I wish I had a fundashi bro ><

    wanderlust_Sa-chan~ March 17, 2015 9:44 pm

    I have to admit that this really sounds like it came out from a shonen-ai manga. You're really freaked out when you wrote this post and I hope you feel better now. At the same time, I have a similar experience. I wasn't a fujoshi back then and didn't even know the existence of yaoi that time. I grew up in a conservative environment but despite that, everyone perceived me as an open-minded person. Henceforth, I have many kinds of friends since I was little.

    My bestfriend was quite open with her affection when she realized she liked me, practically harassing me at times especially when I was about to change for Physical Ed. I kept telling her that I'm straight but she kept saying that she just couldn't help it. Stolen kisses, her lingered touches.. maybe I was too gentle on most rejections but she was an irreplaceable friend. I showed my irritations and sometimes I didn't even talk to her for a few days when things got extreme (of course I freaked out). We stayed as friends until graduation and even when we parted ways (because our colleges were far apart), she said if we were to meet again and she didn't think she could forget me because I was her first love. She was already dating someone else then.

    I hope this could be of help for a bit? Your best friend... He sounds like a good friend IMHO despite he might have had an ulterior motive. He seemed to be content to be your best friend at first because he knew that it was a hopeless love until he found out that you read BL. He thought it could be a chance and despite you said that you were straight but in his opinion, a chance is still a chance.

    Talk to him. Yes, it might be painful to him at first and possible loss of friendship for a period of time, who knows. I just hope he understood that you are not a homophobic and accept that you are straight. I hope that you guys are still friends and he could move on. I hope he understands that he has you as a friend who wouldn't judge his sexual orientation.

    Best of luck!

    Shino ren March 18, 2015 10:31 pm
    I have to admit that this really sounds like it came out from a shonen-ai manga. You're really freaked out when you wrote this post and I hope you feel better now. At the same time, I have a similar experience.... wanderlust_Sa-chan~

    Wow you'r story is kind of same. Thats good your still befriends (⌒▽⌒) thank you for the advace behalf of my bro (⌒▽⌒)

    Shinkyuu September 25, 2016 2:23 pm

    Can i know what happened after?

    moonprincess September 25, 2016 4:42 pm

    WOW! It really does look like something out of a shounen-ai manga, but hey, life is sometimes stranger than fiction. Anyways, tell your bro that if his best friend is the one for him, then that should be that. Just because most people say that they're straight, doesn't mean that they're not gonna feel something for the person of the same gender. Sexual fluidity does exist. That person may be straight, but it also means that that person is special to him/her in some ways and love does come in different forms. However, if your bro doesn't see his friend in a romantic way, then he should straight up tell him the truth cuz if he doesn't, both of them are gonna be in a world full of hurt and that's not good for anybody's health. Hope this advice helps, but tell your bro good luck :)

    BabyI July 20, 2017 11:14 pm

    What happened? I need to knowww